CMV: women will not date men Who have slept with other men. This proves Trp correct

TW_CountryMusic · 2016-10-05T20:17:29+00:00

Personally I'd be hesitant to date a guy who was into other dudes (though I wouldn't rule it out completely if I liked him enough), but not for the reasons you mentioned.

The reason for me is because if a guy likes sex with guys, that's something that, sexually, I'll never be able to offer him. And since I'm not interested in non-monogamy (and thus wouldn't be okay with him sleeping with guys while he was with me), I would be denying him a huge part of his sexuality.

It would be the same as dating a guy into hardcore BDSM or something like that. I can't give him that (at least without significant cost to myself), so I would worry that either he's not sexually satisfied with our relationship, or he's getting it somewhere else. Either way, it's a bad outcome for all involved.

If he had experimented in the past and decided it wasn't for him, or if sex with guys was something he had fun with but didn't really want/need to do anymore, I'd be okay with that.

DrunkGirl69 · 2016-10-05T20:20:54+00:00

My last boyfriend was bisexual. This proves TRP false?

MisgenderedCactus · 2016-10-05T21:29:46+00:00

My lover of 8 years has admitted to experimenting with other guys in high school. It's fine by me. I mean, I'm bisexual and my first kiss and make out session was with a chick in 10th grade, so it's not like I'm one to talk. Lol.

vandaalen · 2016-10-05T20:16:49+00:00

What?

I know two guys who used to take home girls on a regular basis together and all of them got turned on massively once the dudes started sucking each others cocks.

The only thing I could imagine i that if you've been the fuckee, women will loose allrespect for you since making another dude your bitch might be the boldest display of dominance there is.

shogunofsarcasm · 2016-10-05T20:28:40+00:00

Have I personally dated a bi guy? No, the situation has never arose. I've had a gay guy kiss my neck once though. That kind of counts I guess.

I honestly have no problem with bisexuals. I would have dated one if they asked and seemed like nice people. I was just never asked. Coincidence I guess.

I used to love gay porn though...if that means anything lol.

[deleted] · 2016-10-05T20:59:19+00:00

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wynterpetals · 2016-10-05T20:38:13+00:00

It's interesting because a common complaint I hear from women are that all the good looking and well-dressed men are always gay.

It's not that women don't want to be with them, they just know gay men are not into them. So why bother?

BiggerDthanYou · 2016-10-05T20:55:29+00:00

The 'bi" guys I knew in high school are out of the closet now.

The bi guys I knew later in life are all settling down with women. One gave me some sort of spiel about how he's romantically attracted to women and a-romantic towards men. They've all had more male lovers than female ones, for obvious reasons. But at the end of the day, they end up chicks.

fuxdpus · 2016-10-05T21:03:00+00:00

This is obviously false, considering the fact that a lot of men who have sex with men (msm) have had girlfriends or wives. Examples include Jerry Sandusky, Eddie Long, Ted Haggard, Jim McGreevy, and so on. I think both Elton John and Freddy Mercury had girlfriends or wives at one point.

OP also confuses masculinity with fucking other men. Some gay men fit the "feminine" stereotype, but others don't. Men can appear to be masculine and still fuck other men. Or they could appear feminine and have no interest in sex with other men.

I wouldn't blame women if they didn't want to have sex with msm, considering the fact that msm have dramatically elevated rates of diseases like HIV and syphilis. But a lot of women will fuck them anyway. Even if they say they wouldn't, they can't tell if a man has ever fucked other men or not, or if a man regularly fucks other men.

Some of the women who say they wouldn't fuck a gay guy are more about appearances than reality (like a lot of women in general). Their boyfriend or husband could be fucking other dudes non-stop and bringing them home diseases, and they wouldn't say shit if it was hidden.

ApatheticAnarchy · 2016-10-05T23:23:20+00:00

I can point you to a very large number of very, very masculine gay men, so I'm afraid that's where the credit is going to have to stop. There can be nothing more manly than manly men getting manly with many manly men.

BiggerDthanYou · 2016-10-05T21:23:37+00:00

What I'm getting at here is that since most women will not date a man who has fucked another man, this proves much of the red pill correct.

If anything it helped me. Where do you get that idea from? It doesn't have any basis in reality. Many women love MFM threesomes so this is a huge plus.

Sure there are some that care, but those have a lot of other red flags like racism and I wouldn't want to spend any time with judgemental bigoted people either way.

Do you even know gay or bi people? Some of my gay friends have sex with women from time to time simply because "a hole is a hole" and it's often easier for them to find a willing hot chick than a hot gay guy although you know that they are gay even before they open their mouth.

[deleted] · 2016-10-05T20:12:58+00:00

Something I noticed in college.

shogunofsarcasm · 2016-10-05T20:28:44+00:00

Have I personally dated a bi guy? No, the situation has never arose. I've had a gay guy kiss my neck once though. That kind of counts I guess.

I honestly have no problem with bisexuals. I would have dated one if they asked and seemed like nice people. I was just never asked. Coincidence I guess.

I used to love gay porn though...if that means anything lol.

Pixiepup · 2016-10-06T03:03:53+00:00

I adore bi men, but I'm not sure any gay men would be interested, seeing as how I have a vagina and all.

[deleted] · 2016-10-06T17:14:13+00:00

What I'm getting at here is that since most women will not date a man who has fucked another man

There are LOTS of bi guys out there dating women and hooking up with women. This alone proves that much of the Red Pill is bullshit.

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[deleted] · 2016-10-05T22:23:59+00:00

Jesus. This is why the rule of thumb is sidebar, Lurk, than post on the rp subs.

andrewisgood · 2016-10-06T02:20:26+00:00

How do you know that? Any particular stats to back this up? That's quite the bold statement, and clearly you wouldn't make it if you had some concrete facts.

Now, I could say some women will not date men who slept with other men, that's easy to prove. But women, in general? Let's get some stats, a claim like that requires them, unless you're just simply talking out of your ass.

Blaat1985 · 2016-10-06T06:40:09+00:00

Flawed argumentation because gays can be very masculine too.

fullmoonhermit · 2016-10-06T17:08:26+00:00

I am super into my fellow bisexuals. Check out hot people with me! Share in the experience of being kind of a weird outlier in communities! Bring it on!

If you fooled around with dudes but aren't bi, that just means you're probably open-minded, which I'm totally into.

Title	CMV: women will not date men Who have slept with other men. This proves Trp correct
Author	ddiogenesofsinope
Upvotes	4
Comments	97
Date	October 5, 2016 8:09 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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