CMV: TBP is more akin to the nice guy stereotype than TRP

coratoad · 2016-07-07T21:53:09+00:00

If RPillers tell us that all the women they have dated and met are immature, emotional, manipulative, dumb, entitled, and slutty, then why is it wrong for BPillers to say that the only women Rpillers attract are immature, emotional, manipulative, dumb, entitled, and slutty? Do you even disagree with us?

BiggerDthanYou · 2016-07-08T00:14:36+00:00

We don't say things like that for the same reason as the nice guy.

The nice guy is hurt and lets out his anger by pulling others down.

But we are basing it on TBP biotruth facts! and on your (TRP not you) generalizations.

The more you apply TRP the truer AWALT will become

If you swallow the pill and keep on practicing your ALPHA role you will one day end up as a textbook example for an avoidant attachment pattern. Yeah bro never let them close; this way the breakup won't hurt. You didn't love her anyway, right? Lift a bit and cum all over the face of a hot slut. That's the way real men cope with their feelings.

And the thing is that this type OF guy tends to be the one insecure women are most attracted to. This is true, because it's an official TBP biotruth fact.

Plus there's the fact that TRPers only go for the hottest of the hottest without caring about their personality at all (some even thinking that women in general don't even have any personality).

If they don't even care about their personality, don't expect women to be smart, don't acknowledge it when women are smart and don't even like it when they are smarter than them how are they supposed to meet intelligent women?

You know what's a really great motivation to spend all your money and time on clothes, operations and fitness? Insecurity

I'm not saying all (or even most) perfectly fit and perfectly looking hotties are insecure. I'm just noticing trends.

Plus they often pick them up at bars, parties and night clubs.

You know what's a really great motivation to go partying every weekend? Personal problems like insecurity or lower intelligence

Many of the happiest life-of-the-party people have very little self esteem when sober and some can only leave their house on cocaine. The harder they party the sadder they are.

Often there is a reason for why they drop molly every other week and get drunk three times per week. Add an sex addiction and you've got the type of women that get laid the most.

Or rather the type of women I had the best chances with when I still used to be a natural RP.

I was a textbook example of Chad and hot insecure dummies were the ones I picked up the most. They loved me, because I didn't love them. Because I was too good for them.

And they fell for it. Again and again.

You've got to be pretty dumb to sleep with the charming hot guy even though your female friends and beta orbiters warn you of him. Even though you know that he already pumped and dumped several girls in your friend circle and even though you know, deep down, that he won't ever love you.

Once I tamed down (I guess due to weed and getting older) it was as if I finally unlocked access to smart confident women.

I will never go back. The quality of the women I get to interact with went up immensely and the quality of my partners and relationships as well.

Even though I've gotten laid nearly every weekend for close to a decade I was close to being a MGTOW. I had no interest in relationships and got bored of random hookups. Women were boring, annoying and relationship seemed like hell.

I think my increasing lack of interest in women was another reason for why I tamed down.

I still had some really great FWBs (and amazing sisters and mother) so I didn't gave up completely. I kept on looking for unicorns, but then I realized that I simply need to adapt my tactics to them.

And a unicorn is always smart enough to look through mind games and they are confident enough to leave shitty relationships and they know that they deserve an equal relationship.

And yeah before anyone says "but that means TRP is correct". No it isn't.

It works.

It works, but that doesn't mean that it should be done. And it doesn't mean that the premises and theories to explain why it works are correct.

It works, but in such a narrow way that the people using it will attract even more AWALT women which in turn reinforces their trust in TRP.

prodigy2throw · 2016-07-07T21:10:34+00:00

I thought TBP was just a satire of TRP and therefore is, if anything, just comedy.

lollygagyo · 2016-07-07T20:33:30+00:00

not really. granted, i don't hang out there much, but from what i remember... it was simply identifying the type of women that would be interested in/fall victim to the kind of tactics employed by TRPers. i don't remember them being cruelly called dummies, and they weren't jealous of them, that's for damned sure. here, here's a few examples:

TRP is obsessed with lifting: more superficial people are interested in seeking out and holding onto a partner based on their appearance.

TRP is interested in playing games and making their partner believe they'll be cheated on or left behind: people with low self-esteem or little experience would be more likely to fall for such a thing.

TRPers are always complaining about how horrible the women they're surrounded with are: TRPers spend time around horrible women.

aside from the last one, potentially, those women aren't necessarily bad; in fact, i was like the second kind, and i feel for them. but, they are the type that something like TRP would work on/the type that TRP seems to bring around, despite their claims that it's great and works on every single woman.

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winterrider · 2016-07-15T06:22:13+00:00

The truth is somewhere in between. You can't be an insecure, doormat, nice guy. Women are not sexually attracted to that. On the other hand, if you are beating her every day, that is the other extreme. Most women don't want that.

Women are attracted to what they are attracted to. Smart men look at the men who women sleep with and try to emulate their behavior. Smart men don't listen to what women SAY, they look at who they sleep with.

SpaceWhiskey · 2016-07-07T23:19:31+00:00

I don't think anyone is insulting the insecure women who the manipulative bullshit works on, if anything I imagine they/we would like to help those women see the light: that they deserve better than that.

[deleted] · 2016-07-07T20:40:33+00:00

aren't some blue pillers former gfs of red pillers .

[deleted] · 2016-07-08T09:01:55+00:00

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ZazieGallimard · 2016-07-09T00:58:34+00:00

TBP is a crab bucket that lives vicariously through voyeuristic rage on people they will never meet, affect their lives in no way, and oft times are just projecting their own insecurities on the Internet.

It's a source of nothing but sadness and crabs... So many crabs

questioningwoman · 2016-07-07T20:24:41+00:00

I prefer "nice guy" to TRP. I'm having fun trying to scare away RP men because how I'm treated is the very most important thing.

Title	CMV: TBP is more akin to the nice guy stereotype than TRP
Author	AmericanHistoryAFBB
Upvotes	4
Comments	74
Date	July 7, 2016 8:23 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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