I don't even know if this is particularly controversial, but it seems there is a lot of concern about feminists pushing ideas such as fat acceptance and "strong independent women", as this will negatively affect the atmosphere of the SMP for men.

My argument is that this as almost zero affect in the SMP, because the collective power of men dwarfs the collective power of feminists. Consider the following.

1. Beauty standards.


Women still spend ungodly amounts of money and time trying to look young, pretty, and thin. They still shave their legs, armpits, and pubes. They still wear their hair long. They do this because this is what attracts men. Do you think I'm about to walk around with hairy legs to help with the destruction of the patriarchy? Nah. I want men to want to have sex with me far, far more than I care about abolishing the patriarchy.

2. Imbalance in the SMP


I really don't understand this argument because there wasn't an SMP before. There was only an RMP. I know that casual sex hasn't been evenly distributed across all men, but before it wasn't even an option. Or if it was, you had to be a celebrity to get causal sex. Now you just have to be a drug dealer or bar tender.

For those who still want relationships, statistically speaking, you can still get relationships. From what I've read, and RPillers seem to have agreed with me on this point, that couples match assortatively in relationships. You can still get someone of roughly equal SMV to yourself if you stick with LTR's. This is because women want to be in relationships more than they believe feminists telling them that they are entitled to Christian Grey. (strawman, I know..)

3. Hypergamy


The norm throughout human history was polygyny. You have a better chance of getting a woman to yourself than almost any other point in time. You don't have to have 10,000 cattle and 5,000 Hebrew slaves to support your harem. Genghis Khan isn't around to horde all the women.

4. Strong Independent women


BB was the norm in the past. You can still be BB if you want. But now you can also be some rich woman's boy toy. It's not typical, but it is an option. You can also count on your wife having a job, so there is less pressure on you to provide. You won't get a virgin though. That is something that feminism legitimately ruined for you.

5. Summary


Individual men feel powerless in the SMP, because individuals are generally powerless to begin with. A single person will not be able to affect anything on the large scale. This goes for feminists and women as well. However, collectively, men have a lot of power. Women want to please you, much more than they want to please feminists. Look at TBP and the women who post here (myself included). They are genuinely upset that you say mean things about them. They want male approval so badly, that even the opinions of strange betas and omegas on the internet matters. This is the power you have over women. We want your approval, acceptance, and validation, just as badly as you want it from us.