Do BluePill men truly believe they are the ‘best their girlfriend/wife ever had”?

SoldierGenerale · 2015-03-21T12:52:57+00:00

Not a BP man, but woman. I have friends that arguably rode the cock carousel when they were younger. So many of them tell me that it was just sex, just mechanical and then they met their partner and they had this emotional attachement to the other person. Sex finally meant something and physically they got off on it more too.

What makes a man the best you've ever had isn't just limited to looks or sexual skill, how you feel about the person you're getting intimate with matters a lot for women. I assume it is the same way for some men too.

BlitheCynic · 2015-03-21T09:24:21+00:00

I am a woman and I have had promiscuous friends tell me this honestly about their SOs before, so I would say, maybe not true in every case but no it's definitely not a total fiction.

Personally, I would rather become a crazy old cat lady than ever settle for a guy I'm not into.

chad_thundertwat · 2015-03-21T18:15:37+00:00

A woman who has slept with 30 men, does not mean that she has had 30 mind blowing sexual experiences. And, vice versa, a man who has slept with 30 women does not mean that he's a sex god. I've had a fair number of hook ups when I was younger, but I don't think those experiences have made me any better at sex. What has made me a better lover is open and honest communication about my sexuality with a trusted partner.

rulenumber303 · 2015-03-21T10:55:29+00:00

The older I get and the more I observe and think about the world and how other people describe their sexual relationships, the more I am of the opinion that there's not much sexual difference between most competent men . There's absolute failures (can't get a stiffy, spills in his trousers every time, weird fetish that makes everything awkward, one inch penis etc) and there's lazy bastards (won't put any effort into thrusting, whines about the effort of foreplay, wants a blowie but can't be bothered reciprocating) and then everyone else is pretty much within cooee of each other in regards to performance.

wazzup987 · 2015-03-21T12:29:55+00:00

There is more to life than sex, and if the sex isn't satisfactory for either party then what we have there is a failure to communicate.

TekkomanKingz · 2015-03-21T16:43:24+00:00

Lol those cartoons are oh so bitter. I am really enjoying them.

And I like how the women get eye creases but not the men, classic.

TheChemist158 · 2015-03-21T16:09:26+00:00

Insecure guys can be very annoying. Worrying if you are the biggest or lasted the longest is pointless and just an exercise in insecurity. If your wife married you just because if sexual reasons that's more of the problem. I'm not sure how universal this is but making love with someone who you are close to is a lot more satisfying than casual sex. On those grounds, along with learning each others body, you probably rank higher sexually than most if not all casual sex partners.

powerkick · 2015-03-21T23:32:04+00:00

Here's how I see it:

She isn't with any of her past lovers. She is with me. She has been for a while now. There's a reason for that.

wombatinaburrow · 2015-03-22T11:15:49+00:00

Yes he is.

SoldierGenerale · 2015-03-22T18:30:17+00:00

I don't care if I'm the best partner she's ever had. That's some petty ego shit. You don't have to be the best, you just have to be good enough. If she breaks up because she doesn't enjoy the sex I might re-evalute my views. Other than that if it aint broke, don't fix it.

Iwillpixiecutyou · 2015-03-21T12:51:35+00:00

If you communicate with your partner, you will be better. If you love your partner, it will be better.

I'm assuming ONS have little of that kind of communication (or time to get it right) and TRP even less communication or even basic awareness that women are people with individual preferences ("AWALT LIKE CHOKING, RIGHT?!?!?" TRP communicates with each other about what the people you have sex with want. What could possibly go wrong with that strategy.)

Your sub's whole goal is to be promiscuous men. Also abusive men who use dread and negging to try to make your partners more insecure. I don't see why you're commenting on other's insecurity or sex lives when yours is based on being angry at women for having sex and obsessing over how many women you've managed to have sex with or not.

SpaceWhiskey · 2015-03-22T00:20:09+00:00

Sex isn't something that can be ranked scientifically. Everyone has a different opinion about what makes something the "best sex". As others in this thread have already mentioned, for some women, the man's physical features aren't as important as the emotional connection she feels with him.

For example, in my own personal life, the guy I've slept with who had the biggest dick was an unpleasant experience. He was a one night stand, and I didn't hook up with him for the dick size, I didn't even know until we were getting naked. Because of his size, the condom we used was uncomfortable for him. He didn't last very long, I didn't finish and he didn't seem to care. He didn't spend the night (this was discussed beforehand so it's not like he just bailed) and the next morning when I saw the condom in the trash can I noticed it was broken. I didn't have a car at the time and frantically had to find a ride to the pharmacy to get Plan B, which in addition to being scary as shit also set me back like, $50. So yeah, sometimes biggest dick doesn't count for much. Not the greatest memory.

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CursedLemon · 2015-03-22T21:52:27+00:00

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Title	Do BluePill men truly believe they are the ‘best their girlfriend/wife ever had”?
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Date	March 21, 2015 6:44 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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