I used to be one of these PickMes. And then I did the best thing I could’ve ever done for myself and subscribed to this subreddit 💕

Sage_Planter · 2020-09-28T22:23:11+00:00

The problem is the pickmes who say "I don't need much!" are also the same ones who are spending hours and hundreds on his birthday when it rolls around. It's totally cool if a woman doesn't want much in terms of gifts, but she better not be going all out on him in exchange for a pair of pajamas and a candle.

apple_cores · 2020-09-28T22:37:12+00:00

This used to be me lol but I never blasted it on social media. Where was this sub in my life 2.5 year ago 😩 I coulda saved myself a lot of heartache.

I want nice gifts. I give nice and thoughtful gifts to people I love for their birthday or sometimes randomly. If I’m the girl you love, you should want to and get me nice, thoughtful gifts cus I deserve it.

FriendlyPitch1 · 2020-09-28T21:36:03+00:00

Honestly same here. I used to literally be happy over proposed dates such as getting ice cream or going to a coffee shop. I’m now realizing how low effort they all were. Edited cause it wasn’t even a coffee shop, but a fast food restaurant styled coffee donut shop smh.

Merryprankstress · 2020-09-28T22:10:09+00:00

Ok dumb question but wtf is "a chinese"

tiredaligator19 · 2020-09-28T23:27:13+00:00

honestly I love all those things, but if I have to put up with a man I want more than that.

twiddledeebum · 2020-09-28T23:54:41+00:00

I cringe at my past self that would settle for less than that. So glad I found this place I like it here lol

lacyvulture · 2020-09-29T08:24:49+00:00

These types of girls will settle for so little because all they really want is love. They still don’t realize that they aren’t going to get that either. Suckers.

InterestingMango0 · 2020-09-28T22:29:41+00:00

Or settle for chicken cutlets...

ASeaOfQuotes · 2020-09-28T22:55:27+00:00

If he wants to get me pajamas and slippers he can shop for me at Louis Vuitton. 🤷‍♀️

rinabean · 2020-09-29T14:00:21+00:00

She's literally saying she's settling. It's not what she wants...

I know we say it a lot, but that's only because women settle a lot! We can do better

If you're settling... it's not special!

Mountain_Nectarine_6 · 2020-09-28T22:10:05+00:00

She certainly can’t speak for us. Go enjoy being a pick me Morgan

Hhjjuuy · 2020-09-29T16:04:10+00:00

Such a low bar and she still isn't getting what she'd settle for.

TheTower_14 · 2020-09-29T19:43:30+00:00

To me, if you're going to buy my something that cheap I'd rather you just not get it at all. Save and buy something better 🙄

Title	I used to be one of these PickMes. And then I did the best thing I could’ve ever done for myself and subscribed to this subreddit 💕
Author	ieatrainbowsprinkles
Upvotes	127
Comments	27
Date	September 28, 2020 6:30 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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