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Do your women cum often?

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November 5, 2019

Depsite all the "focus on your own pleasure" noise, your woman's pleasure plays a big role in your relationship, whatever it is. I recently started noticing that not many of my ons/plates actually cum and, tbh, even with me trying not to give a fuck about it, it kind of hurts my ego.

So, do you folks see female orgasms often?

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Title Do your women cum often?
Author vaynsterrr
Upvotes 69
Comments 96
Date 05 November 2019 12:36 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]frognads 251 points252 points  (10 children) | Copy

Bro I'll be honest I can't fucking tell if they're cumming, nor do I trust them when they say they are. As long as they're enjoying themselves I'm cool.

[–]JosephBosa 33 points34 points  (5 children) | Copy

This! I fucking hate when guys brag that she came 3 times or whatever. I heard this a lot from my friends when we were 14 years old and all through our high school.

It’s always the most painfully average guys saying this too.

[–]ChadTheWaiter100 7 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy

Have you seen their cocks?

[–]JosephBosa 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Average in SMV terms. That’s all that really matters

[–]Sora26 8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Do you play Defensive End for the Los Angeles Chargers?

[–]ChadTheWaiter100 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]1DonaldBaelish 35 points36 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Sora26 29 points30 points  (0 children) | Copy

They’ve made cumming an absolutely ridiculous shit show. When it’s suppose to be the most natural thing a women can do.

This is why some women come in 2 minutes, and some can’t, at all.

How many men do you know that can’t orgasm?

Literally only men who have old age, whiskey dick, or aren’t attracted to the girl.

Women focus on how they look so much, they forget about their enjoyment, and never end up getting into it.

So yeah,

They think way too much, make it twice as hard on themselves, pretend to cum, swear on their life they did.

Only to find out 4 months after the breakup she’s telling her friends you never made her cum.

We’ve all seen, or experienced this, in some way, and to some degree.

The most natural act in the entire universe made into an absolute shit show.

Tbh bro, I’m above average and know how to use it. I give em 20-25 minutes a pop. That’s all the time they got. What they do in that time is up to them.

So yeah, 20-25 mins is prime time IMO. I can go for longer, but what’s the point?

I’m not your dad. If you’re too nervous/can’t cum, I’m not going to come over there and show you how.

(end sentence was a joke)

[–]chaching131 14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy

Right? If they like you they’ll tell you they came and you’ll never know the truth. I hooked up with a girl a month ago and she was moaning with pleasure until she thought I came (I hadn’t). She then stopped moaning out of nowhere and said “did you just cum”. I had just stopped pumping for a second. I said I hadn’t cum yet and she instantly started moaning pleasure sounds again until I came. I almost burst out laughing but it didn’t stop me from finishing (although it kinda pissed me off and sorta ruined the mood). Ive been with a lot of women and I don’t know what the hell a female orgasm is and I suspect a lot of women don’t know either.

[–]frognads 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Haha goofy bitch.

[–]Rkingpin 91 points92 points  (8 children) | Copy

Some girls cum easier than others.

But all of em enjoy when u stroke their g spot through fingering during foreplay at least.

If ur dominating her well and smashing them cheeks good, spanking and hair pulling and she still doesnt cum thats her own fucking problem brobro

[–]boywonder200 20 points21 points  (6 children) | Copy

I disagree. I've had several girls that HATE being fingered. But like you said, I've had several girls who absolutely love it. Fact of the matter is, girls love to get penetrated by dick, not a finger with a fingernail attached.

[–]TFWnoLTR 15 points16 points  (2 children) | Copy

That's why the real trick is to stroke their g spot with your dick. Once you figure out how it's a peice of cake.

[–]boywonder200 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Nah, you don't understand. Most dudes learn how to finger a girl in high school. Some girls just hate having fingers inside them.

[–]TFWnoLTR 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think you misread my comment.

I'm well aware some women don't like fingers in them. Fingers have grooves all over them that feel like sandpaper to extra sensitive areas on sensitive people. My dick is like that. I can't stand when a hand rubs on the tip of my dick, no matter how well lubricated it is. Some women seem to think they have a magic touch and can ignore when I say don't touch there and I hate it. Ruins everything.

[–]AceMav21 13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah some bitches like when I stick my big toe in them

[–]KaRzual 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fucking pathetic. Tell me when you learn to shove whole head in bro.

[–]failingtheturingtest -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

You've had several girls who hate the way they are being fingered. Either you're doing a shithouse job, or they're still worried about the last guy who tried to start fire using his boyscout training inside her.

[–]Rondooooo 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sometimes you gotta flick the bean tho

[–]MotiMorphosys 47 points48 points  (4 children) | Copy

About 50% of the time. If you're redpilled and understand what makes women wet, you're already ahead of the game. Women will shit test you in bed just as often as on the street so don't get fazed by the bullshit they feed you in the sheets.

There's a great educational video on pornhub on how to make a girl squirt. Regardless of your views on squirting, that method has gotten me results and compliments wheather or not my bedsheets got soaked.

[–]DTJ1313 16 points17 points  (3 children) | Copy

Got a link? Asking for a friend.

[–]AscensionExperiments 23 points24 points  (1 child) | Copy

YouTube has an even better one. "Brosciencelife" on how to make a girl squirt.

[–]NobodyP1 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

That guy is the shit

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[–][deleted] 27 points28 points  (4 children) | Copy

They cum most of the time, probably >75%. I enjoy it when we cum at the same time, when she squirts, when she cums a few times before I unload. Sex is better for me when we're both getting off regularly. If she's not fun in bed, and isn't teachable, then I move on to someone who is fun. I've noticed that women who are fun in bed do what they need to get off, and will adjust their angle or give feedback that helps them get off. When they start getting off, it makes it pretty easy for me to cum, so it's a good time all around.

[–]-DeadLock 4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

Are you making a point of stimulating the clit to get them off? Or banging them hard and rough? In my experience I've only been able to get a girl to cum once with penetration.. But stimulating the clit seems the way to go and its backed by statistics (90% of women claim they dont cum from penetration)

I have a hard time believing the dudes who say they make em cum several times with their dick. That seems to be a rare kind of girl rather then the skill of the guy.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

It's harder to make women cum in the beginning when I don't know their body that well, but turning on a woman's mind is the most important part for making her cum. Sometimes it's a long look in the eyes with some heavy breathing that communicates a primal desire that turns her on. Unzipping my pants while not breaking eye contact, kissing her, then grabbing her hair and pulling her head to my dick, etc., makes it exciting for her. Sometimes it's a passionate kiss, and then picking her up and carrying her up stairs to the bed. Other times it choking her, slapping her face, spitting on her face, and then fucking her ass that gets her going. Just depends on the mood. The key, though, is that it's not that you're removing her pants, rather it's how you remove them that makes it fun and exciting for her. A little showmanship goes a long way.

You can't go wrong stimulating the clit. In my experience, turning on her mind and playing with the clit will make her wetter and lead to more satisfying sex. Women can come from penetration alone with the right angle and stamina, although most orgasms start and end with the external portion of the clit.

[–]-DeadLock 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah thats good advice. My problem is that whenever they start really spluttering and moaning when Im doing freaky shit to them and they visibly start losing their mind and I cum before they do.. But im guessing thats just practice. I haven't been fucking for long.

[–]falconiawillfall 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

In my experience I've only ever gotten girls to cum using my mouth or fingers (i.e. clit stimulation). I know there's ways to position them so your rubbing against their clit or g-spot during penetration but I'm lazy and I like going to town doggy style

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed 26 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy

Making women cum is WAY more cerebral than physical. Are you mindfucking her?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. The more turned on she is, where she is begging for me to fuck her, then the easier it is to make her cum. Whether gentle or rough, fucking her or letting her ride me, I'm always dominant and leading. Being dominant and leading allows her to relax and let go, and many end up being very submissive and uber feminine with me because I'm dominant and leading them. I should add that it took me about 10 years to really get good at this. Actually, it's pretty hilarious how many professional women end up wanting to cook and clean for me, I think, because my frame makes them want to be a good woman for me and those traditional female activities are things that I value.

[–]Protocol_Apollo 33 points34 points  (2 children) | Copy

  1. Read sex god method.

  2. Don’t attach your worth to their orgasms. You are not a performer for them, they are responsible for their orgasm,

[–]gottapaythetrollstol -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Know anywhere to get “sex god method”? I tried amazon but it seems like this book just stopped being printed

[–]Protocol_Apollo 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You can get it for free as a pdf- try the main sub sidebar or this sidebar.

If not, PM me.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, I do. And it's important to make her cum. You need to give her that value, that juice, the certainty, that undeniable fact and good feeling which will keep her cumming back.

[–]audacious_wirble 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Women that are comfortable with themselves and know themselves intimately will cum whether you do anything or not. I have been with women who just lay there and expected me to make them cum, and women who came just from me holding one finger against their clit for them to run against.

A good woman takes care of herself. You sex god method, keep up your stamina and work your kegels. If a woman does not cum, it is her problem. Even if you are a 2 pump chump she should be getting off from other ways as well.

It is no secret women like guys that last longer than a minute. It gives them time to enjoy, themselves and cum at their own schedule. Just keep doing your thing, and sooner or later you will come across a breed of woman that cums whether you participated or not. Those are the fun ones.

[–]AnneStaz 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

95% of the time I give her a fantastic one with my tongue before hand. Not sure if they cum or not during sex, sometimes maybe? I don't trust it. I can tell with my tongue though

[–]Speedracer1111 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

  1. A woman not coming doesn't mean she isn't having a good time. Had a Malaysian plate that came once or twice out of the ten times we fucked. Only texted and met to fuck, but she kept coming back.

  2. Men are doing 80-100% of the work. If she can't cum while laying on her back or her ass is up in the air, that's on her.

  3. Women and pussies come in different sizes and shapes. Leep the ones add value and work with you and your dick.

[–]boywonder200 5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

This is true.

Studies have shown that while men DO require an orgasm to feel sexually satisfied, women DO NOT. My girlfriend loves having sex with me but she cums maybe 80% of the time. Before she dated me, she had never came from penetration alone and always had to diddle herself to get off.

Most ONS I've had, there is just too much variance in what a girl needs to get off to have a 100% success rate.

[–]randomthoughts1050 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Studies have shown that while men DO require an orgasm to feel sexually satisfied, women DO NOT.

In my experience, ONS & plates will do almost anything to make sure you cum. They want to know you are satisfied and as validation that they can satisfy you.

I have a hard time busting a nut while fucking for the first time. Subsequent fucks, no problem busting it in the condom. Girls will finish me off with their tits, facials or blowjobs.

Don't believe a girl when she says she doesn't do that. Had a girl giving me a hand job, was like hey suck on it. Her reply was, ok but warn me as I don't like the taste of cum. Informed her she would take it in the mouth and could spit it out in the toilet. She took it like a pro... and quickly ran to the toilet. (never understood that about her, she'd always run to the toilet. I'd think it would taste less bad if she swallowed versus letting it linger in her mouth for me to finish and then the time to make it to the bathroom.)

[–]KaRzual 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Disgusting. I like it.

[–]RioPerez 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

You should find a way to make your women cum. When a women has her sexual desires thoroughly satisfied from you it adds an additional layer of attraction that can't be easily broken.

[–]PhaedrusHunt 5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

Usually. Some cum every time. My BPD wife of 11 years barely ever did. I quit giving a shit and stopped trying. It was a control thing.

I've been with a few women that cum basically the entire time. Those are really fun lol

I have to say that I've always been into the Asian style of sex and approach to it my entire life, probably more old school Japanese than the Thai or Indian stuff although that is fun. But it's a different mindset. I feel like a lot of guys here just want to get it in and pump away and blow their load and be done. That's all good. But I'm more into being in tune with where she's at, getting are breathing and movements all synced up. It's nice.

One time and one only, it was with wife number 1 (not the 11 year one) before we were married, our breathing and heartbeats actually synced up. It was fucking insane. Both came at the exact same instant. Zap. I've pumped and dumped many a time, but believe me, as someone who has experienced both, it's not even close to the former.

That's the type of shit that bonds her to you.

[–]j_arbuckle2012 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You got a source for that technique?

[–]PhaedrusHunt 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No particular source but I think reading the book shibumi is a real insight into the type of mindset I'm talking about.

Honestly it's more of a sigma male approach then an alpha male approach because there has to be almost a level of confidence and arrogance that you just be your most authentic self and do what feels right-- whether or not it comes off as alpha is immaterial. Envision and embody your own standard of a man.

A lot of these guys around here just parrot phrases like read the sex god method, or they want to have lines in their back pocket to use at any time. That's all well and good but it's white belt shit. Good white belt but still white belt.

There's no particular book, video, website, class, guru or bro-coach that can make it click. You have to be really in touch with your own body and mind, have an easy free flowing energy about you. Then the type of women that you can have that next level sex with show up. Guys here talk about, "Yo bro, you fucking her porn star style?" Lol. White belt shit. There are levels to this. One of my best friends worked for Cirque de sole for years. Would you rather bang a girl from the martini bar or one of those women? Do you think most women would take a CrossFit alpha over one of those acrobats?

There are lots of people that are in great shape but their mindset is not there. But if you have the mindset and your body is not there you're not going to get the performance you expect out of you or her. Maximize the point where mind and body meet. Don't dwell in either one too much, and don't neglect either.

Read, write, expand, make different types of new friends.

Physically, do something athletic, and stay flexible. Lift, but also be able to move very well.

Play an instrument. Get good at it. Learn to harmonize, get rhythm going. 

It has very little to do with sexual technique as much as it does flowing with the energy of the moment. It has has HAS to be the right woman, and you have to be in the right mindset and she'll follow you there.

[–]Mouad69 17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

You guys are getting laid?

[–]pebblefromwell 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

They lie about it then complain about it

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Can someone help me find the clitoris on a girl?

[–]ImBackBitch926 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

I've been married before. And about 8 girls total I think. A few of them i didnt feel anything really and they was very hard to cum. A few of them came really easy. The last one I had came so easy and so many times I loved it. But unfortunately she turned weird on me the next day. And blocked me.

[–]Sobinia -2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

She most likely pretended. If you truly pleased her so many times, she wouldn't have blocked you.

[–]ImBackBitch926 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

No I know she wasnt faking..I can tell a

[–]CainPrice 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Often enough. This depends more on the woman than on you. Some women have multiple orgasms just from you barely fingering them for a bit. Others you can go down on for an hour, and they enjoy it, but it just doesn't happen. Some women have an easier time having orgasms at the right points in their cycle.

But most women enjoy sex even when they don't have an orgasm.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

So, do you folks see female orgasms often?

Haha yes. Focus on yourself and she'll love it. She should be cumming during sex though.

[–]Pdubzilla- 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If it bothers you, learn how to make them cum. I am of the opinion that you "keep them cumming, to keep them coming back." That doesn't mean you need to "worry" about it though - there's a difference.

It's okay to try to learn what they like and give it to them. The more the woman enjoys the sex, the more I enjoy it.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

All the time, sometimes from me just giving them a fierce look. /lulz

[–]TFWnoLTR 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It varies depending on the woman. Some get off really easy, like 5 minutes in and I can feel her Vag muscles pulsating and shes squirming in ecstacy. Most are more difficult than that and require sustained rhythm to get there. A few just didn't seem capable of orgasming from penetrative sex with me, but they enjoyed it anyways.

The important thing is not to try too hard. I just managed to find this one motion one time that felt really good to me and was a nice break from hard thrusts, and it turned out it felt good because I was dragging the head of my dick against her g spot with a lot of pressure and I have yet to find a woman who doesn't enjoy that. I even figured out how to do it from behind too.

Focus on having sex that you enjoy, just sprinkle on plenty of foreplay first and you'll find things that are mutually enjoyable by chance as you gain more experience.

[–]Drakane1 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

bro just ask her what she wants. start from a conversation of if she masturbates what feels good for her if she has any fantasy. the more time you spend with her the easier it gets. also girls like to feel like they are so hot they made you loose control and went cave men on their ass .

also rub their clit girls are dumb and dont realize most of them cant cum from just vaginal stimulation. if shes riding make a fist and put your knuckles against it if you're hitting from the back reach around

[–]1XXXMersenne 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Make sure you try lots of things that's how I got used to it. Most of the time, to get girls to cum I just eat her out (she's hot enough), then add a finger or two, slowly & get a consistent rhythm going on her G-Spot (easily felt after lots of foreplay before - or just go in & up lol) then lick & circular rub simultan until she comes after a few mins. She should be shaking when she gets up to suck & fuck you.

Then I just fuck her hard and angle my cock so every stroke is perpendicular with her vagina and each thrust is super-smooth. Proceed with hair pulling, spanking mid-heavy choking. In other words I let go and go with what feels hot. fuck what you've seen in porn. I can barely watch it anymore cus they fucking suck compared to my tastes; I reeeeally like girls & love seeing them get off, and can tell when it's fake - which is so annoying and so I got good at making it real!

[–]Vynxe-Vainglory 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Please refer to Commandment XIV

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy


[–]_-_FanGirl_-_ 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]alpha_bravado 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

How many people here are cut vs uncut?

[–]Project_Zero_Betas 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Asking the important questions

[–]alpha_bravado 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Easier for a woman to cum during intercourse if you are natural.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy


[–]alpha_bravado 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Research it. Natural gliding mechanism, less thrusting more grinding. No dried out stick that requires artificial 'lube'.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No dried out stick

Speak for yourself!

[–]Foolishoe 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Every woman is different. There are five million things holding back the female orgasm and 40 things working to make it happen.

If you can't get them to orgasm I say talk with them about it, work with them on it. Don't waste your time with plates but if they are good people and they are good to you, you can certainly learn a ton by putting in the effort to learn that specific body. There are also plenty of resources out there that can help.

The basic rules I use are

Tons of pre-sex shit: I'm always touching them, slapping the ass, grabbing body parts. I'll hold them for a quick moment and a deep kiss during the day etc. I keep them knowing that all I'm focused on is getting them wherever and ripping them clothes off.

Anticipation of the experience: When it's time to get down, I am very slow and soft and light with the tips of my fingers, typically I'll move them around, look them over and tell them how hot they are, touch my favorite parts, pull them to me.

Push and Pull: Do not get the clothes off and dive strait down onto the clit and hammer away. Work all the parts of the body, focus on the outer thighs, come back up to the chest, go down again with your hands. Some women prefer fingers over the mouth, but spit is essential no matter what.

Relieve her anxiety of your expectation: If she knows you have feelings about her orgasm, that wont help. Be frank and open, it will happen when it happens and you will work at it while also pleasing yourself. It sometimes takes months to learn a woman well enough to get the first orgasm, or it happens the first time, every time because SHE understands how to orgasm and doesn't need any help.

Soft or Hard: Some women need a very aggressive touch, some women you touch too hard and it rubs away the pleasure literally. I would say most women want very light touches until very wet and aroused, then progressively harder to a point, but never as hard as you can.

2 inside: Go do research, two fingers of one hand making a 'come here' movement upwards softly with pressure, mouth or fingers on the clit rotating with more pressure and focus at the top of your rotation at 12 o clock.

It's not a fucking porno: Many things only apply to specific women. Slapping, anal, pinching, biting, degrading talk, scratching all MIGHT turn her on more or it MIGHT fuck everything up for you. Don't be a mute fucking retard, talk to her about this shit. I love to talk kink early on.

I bring it up as a conversation I was having with other women I know better. "I was talking to an old friend and she says the donkey punch can be great if performed properly, you ever try something crazy like that? It's abuse and you gotta sign a contract or something."

I've had women I hardly knew reveal some of the dirtiest shit I couldn't even imagine. They love talking about it openly and they love to have a man recognize they've done such things and approves of it. Get's them excited in advance. I say never shame a woman for her previous sexual acts, she's ready to do most of it again and with you specifically.

Disgusted by something they bring up? Don't do those things with her, simply state you aren't into it but what else does she love? She loves being choked? How hard?

You aren't going to marry her. She's not gross she probably bleaches that dirty asshole.

[–]KillaJewels 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

If it’s a ONS, sometimes you just don’t know. It’s also more challenging to make a ONS cum bc you simply don’t know what she likes/doesn’t like.

Some girls get off mostly to penetration, others mostly to clit stimulation. Some like a mix of the two. Just depends. I also find it’s not all about the dick game.

You gotta spice it up with some choking, slapping and hair pulling. Move her around a lot and switch positions. Don’t be afraid to be aggressive but also gentle in certain moments; you don’t wanna break the pussy. Watch the waterworks go off when you do all this. I got more if you wanna hear it.

Generally, you can tell from plates and LTRs pretty easily over time once they’re in O-town.

[–]PiperBigBell 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

When you see women shake a certain way they can't fake that. When they squirt real hard and start convulsing they can't fake that either. That's what I aim for. Otherwise they really just need to be pounded until they pass out.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

When you see women shake a certain way they can't fake that. When they squirt real hard and start convulsing they can't fake that either.

The 'shake' is most easy way to determine if its fake on not. The latter is correct.

[–]MR_SKINNYPENIS69 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Some do, some don't. It's about chemistry and also about what type of girl she is.

The extremes: I've had 2 women in my life who would cum within 60 seconds, sometimes even less, kinda like a guy with premature ejaculation. I've had some who could never cum no matter what.

Right now they cum often enough that I don't worry about my ability.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Some women won't cum, it's not our fault. Women should know how to give pleasure by themselves first.

[–]redvelvet_oreo 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It shouldn’t matter to you unless it’s clear your not pleasing her at all. Girls won’t cum every time and some times they cum in 30 seconds and multiple times. If you need an indicator of her cuming she usually looks like a a nut job having a seizure making all kinds of noises.

[–]ToraChan23 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

After the first time I've ever made a woman cum, sex was never satisfying for me until I could do it every time.

It is A LOT more difficult for ONSs and plates you don't give a fuck about however.

[–]asdfvegas 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I tend to only have sex with women who are able to cum (not necessarily easily, but are able to during either them receiving oral from me or with PIV, not just by themselves or with their vibrator), and the best sex I recall are the times when they cum while I’m fucking them, and better yet when they cum as I’m cumming inside them.

I’ve dropped plates who aren’t sexually responsive, or who are unable to cum, no matter how attractive they might seem, or how much interpersonal chemistry we have.

My pleasure during sex is partly derived from their pleasure, so it’s important for me to know that they’re having an explosive time too.

[–]no_re-entry 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

They usually cum but not always for me. Once I was talking about it with a chick, I know we trade their advice with a grain of salt, but she said the orgasm isn’t important. Sex is still fun and feels great so they don’t care as long as you don’t care.

Yes being able to make them orgasm makes them even easier to wrap around your finger, but if you can’t do it make sure they still have an awesome time.

[–]lintamacar 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

[–]nycballetlover 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

My SB has never ever experienced orgasm, even on her own. Ive tried real hard, but shes not into letting me. She enjoys oral and penetration though. It takes the pressure off me tbh.

[–]Alzatorus 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

All three of my plates squirt and in very different ways 🤷🏼‍♂️ - just got to learn your girl. One requires a dick in and no movement with a clit rub, another has to get the right rocking motion below and the other from on top. Just experiment. Unlike us guys (pump and dump) it is my strong belief that every girl is different and can get there if you listen to her body. I’ve only ever had a problem with one and she was seriously messed up...

[–]Elephant_777 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. But only because I can't fucking last to save my life. So I learnt how to use my tongue.

Never listen to anything she says during sex (within reason of course) but how her body responds. The body never lies.

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yes constantly they can't even walk most days

[–]chachaChad 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Different women cum at different rates. I was with one that came multiple times from very little stimulation. Only a small number I've seen have been able to cum from PIV and that really had to do with what effort they put in.

It's been my experience that when your ons/plate doesn't come, you're not setting yourself up for repeat business. They might come back for one more round but the best way to ensure the come back or remain open is to make sure they cum. I make it a point to find out what makes a girl wild. I try to get her to talk about what she really, really gets turned on by and use that to rev her up. I enjoy listening to what a girl's kink is. I try and use a key word or talk a certain way when a girl orgasms so that, later, I can use that key word or phrase to excite her into having sex again.

I lost a true cock gobbler plate because I never really cared if she came or not. I think I was with her maybe 10 times and I didn't even bother to think about making her cum. She moved right on once she realized I had no interest in reciprocating.

[–]XT3M3 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

yea. just gotta find out what gets each one going. the inly girls i havent been able to get to cum were the prudes in my bag.

[–]pyth0ns 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I knew VERY early on that my d1ck does not make a girl cum!
This is why I perfected my finger playing technique, where I can make them cum all the time. (I don't eat girls out, not for me)

When played right (especially if you've two pump chumped it)
Take charge and play with your girl (even if she is like no,no,no it's ok)
Learn how to do this! It isn't simply poking your fingers in and out or slapping it like you see in porn - you need to figure out how to gently message the clit and work the stimulation up slowly (find the man in the canoe, as they say - make sure it's wet/lubricated and work it)
Once they've gone - generally the 5-15min it can take to do so, allows me to get hard again!
And that is when the even wilder sex begins

[–]AmaniMomo1 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Porn has ruined orgasm for us all

[–]Don_Draper27 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Like other guys mentioned, I can't often really tell when or how many times a girl has came. Some clues I've had in the past are when a girl gets quiet, tenses up, and like almost tries to slow you down or tries to hold on to something like the sheets. I'll get this a few times but I also don't really put too much attention on it. If I focus too much on her then I'm sort of robbing myself of the experience. If I focus too much on myself then I'll probably cum too fast. I more or less just focus on the moment and try to keep a good pace going. I "go with the flow" and it seems to work out pretty well for me.

Something I do have to mention though is that my first time with any one girl is always one of the worst times I'll have with her. It's not bad, it's just definitely not in my top 3 fuck sessions with them, and it's normal. First times are awkward and you don't really trust or feel very comfortable with them either, especially for ONS.

Example: I was having trouble getting hard the first time I had sex with my LTR. I was really nervous because she was the hottest girl I'd been with. I was too in my head so our first time wasn't magical or anything worthy for PornHub. Of course later on the sex turned out great.

So just read Sex God Method and also keep in mind that if you want to have more quality sex sessions, you'll need to bed your plates a few times before you 2 get comfortable enough to really make some magic happen.

[–]Zanford 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It varies tremendously from woman to woman. I've had some who had a bunch of orgasms every time, even during anal (despite the lack of direct physical stimulation during anal), others who rarely did. Technique matters, but a lot less than all the terrible ego-bait jokes about it would have you believe. More important is how into you she is generally, but even more importantly is just women differ (probably genetic, like how some people are more ticklish than others).

btw almost every girl likes being told to touch herself during sex (aka flick her clit while you smash), so that's a pretty easy way to make her have (more) orgasms during sex if you want.

The best thing you can do is not let it get into your head, just let sex be fun. That's the mindset that will result in the best time for both of you. Girls want a guy who seems like he knows what he's doing in bed, not one who's nervous.

IME fingering or going down on a girl doesn't do much; it may make her orgasm, but she doesn't seem to really care about it beyong that moment, it doesn't bond her to you the way sex does. (In terms of bonding or emotions, girls blowing you seems to do a lot more for their attachment to you than you going down on them.) Some girls can orgasm from foreplay (spanking seems to be the most likely), others not.

[–]JRSBOOM13 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Every time I fuck them.

[–]LordFlakkko 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

But you can feel if the woman is orgasming. One of my plates she gets very wet and I feel rapid pulses in her vagina. Another plate tenses up and then after she orgasms she kind of goes limp.

[–]__TheDon__ 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Foreplay like many on here mentioned. Finger the fuck out of her before sticking your dick in. Put your index finger and your middle finger in her pussy while rubbing her clit with your thumb. After you do that for a while, I guarantee you she will cum.

Thank me later.

[–]MountainFact9 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

all the time, pound away and rub that clit with grace

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, but it depends. Some girls use vibrators every day and it’s very difficult to cum without it. Others don’t even masturbate and cum literally every 60 seconds.

Biggest factor is how sensitive they are though. typically the bigger the clit the more they cum from what I’ve seen.

[–]Massap24 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Probably maybe? Definitely when I use my hands/mouth. Through PIV I’m not sure and idgaf, I consider that my time to enjoy myself. If you try to get them all to cum, all the time you’ll drive yourself crazy.

[–]Raleigh0311 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You should be making them cum. I’ve only had one woman who was hard as fuck to get off, despite throwing my whole tool box of tricks at her. But even then, I could get her off. It just took more work than she was worth. I’m over 40 and have had lots of women. They are pretty easy to please if you know what you’re doing. The one who doesn’t cum regularly should be an extremely rare exception.

It’s more likely that they won’t cum from intercourse alone. But you should have a broader skill set than that.

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Shitpost. If they come back for more, who cares whether they came or not. Women dont care about sex nearly as much as men, the male and female orgasms are basically uncomparable.

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