[Venting] Equality...yeah, sure, you broads are so equal now that according to the passport office I'm a probable child abductor

GayLubeOil · 2015-02-24T08:46:42+00:00

I feel like fathers in the west generally hold themselves to a much higher standard because they are under much tighter scrutiny.

If I was to yell at a child in a supermarket with my muscles and beard then someone would stop me. However if a woman does it no one would do shit. Women understand this at an instictive level and use it as a means to get away with abuse.

IAmTheIlluminatiAMA · 2015-02-24T03:43:24+00:00

One of the things TRP has brought me is peace. Not contentment, by any means. But peace. I can never change the fact that your average dumbfuck on the streets is going to continue to be a BP bitch always assume something with a vagina is a paragon of virtue. I can change myself, though.

I love kids man. They're just so happy and shit and all you gotta do is say, "What's up, big man?" and give 'em some dap or show 'em a little magic trick. They get all happy and shit and you've made a real human connection. Know what kind of looks I get when I do that? And I'm a clean cut, non creepy looking guy. If the woman with me does the same shit? People think it's awesome. This used to anger me. Now I realized....the fuck am I going to do about it? So why let it anger me?

HeinousFu_kery · 2015-02-24T15:36:48+00:00

Here's a good illustration of the same thing:

I was at the Secretary of State's office getting some car paperwork taken care of and as I walked in, I noticed a Volvo station wagon packed to the gills with what was obviously someone's complete belongings - didn't have that "I live in my car" look, but more "I'm moving"; absolutely packed and a luggage pod bulging at the seams on the roof. A couple of kids in the back in car seats.

I'm in the office and I notice the car owner at the window next to mine - she's getting the car title changed from her husband's name to her own ... without any verification (this may have been legal, I don't know). She tells the woman at the counter that "her husband said it's okay" and I look at her. She's nearly in tears, obviously totally wound out and upset and hitting the road and taking the kids to boot, but gets the paperwork done without any questions and goes out and drives off.

I asked the woman I was dealing with something like "You know that she's just run off, right? All her stuff and the kids were in the car. Is it legal to just hand over a title like that?"

"Oh, he probably deserved it....we don't get involved."

Dr_HoaxArthurWilmoth · 2015-02-24T04:55:43+00:00

So, I wonder if you were actually going to take the kids and move to another country to avoid divorce and custody battles is you should apply to be Cisgender or transgender and dress like a woman. Would it be easier if you looked like a woman and the passport office was more worried about being PC and lawsuits to take your kids?

Makati-Kills · 2015-02-24T13:27:01+00:00

most "abductions" are non custodial parent.

which could be as simple as being late returning kids.

since women are mostly awarded custody. then statistically it is men "abducting" (I hate saying this cause is kangaroo court).

however, when a man is awarded custody, and the woman fails to return kids... I reckon statistically it would be greater rate.

i.e. what percentage of men "abduct" their children versus women(who are non-custodial)...

I reckon is exponentially higher...

it is a system of slavery. You cannot renew passport, license, taxi license (and probably much more) if you are in arrears of child support...

So, you can run, but probably not hide for long...

Complecs · 2015-02-24T14:12:52+00:00

Hah, I was shopping in the grocery store the other night and this decent looking woman with two young kids wasn't paying attention while her girl was running around everywhere. As I was walking by I told the girl "watch it sweetheart", the woman turned around with the horrified expression on her face, I just smiled and winked at her and she she seemed to calm down, there couldve even been an ioi in there but fuck that. That was my first time ever dealing with something like that, maybe it's a kind of shit test to see how youll react at some level? Or maybe it's because i don't look like a creep, who knows.

TheRealMewt · 2015-02-24T05:47:23+00:00

For all I know, your ex is the kind of person who would lie about getting a call from the passport office to verify signatures. I mean, with the way you describe your ex as verbally abusive, unstable, and manipulative; it's certainly plausible.

1independentmale · 2015-02-24T18:09:17+00:00

People are presumptuous assholes when it comes to this sort of thing. My daughter and I grabbed a bite to eat at a little cafe a few years ago, I think she was about 15 at the time, and the waitress was a surly bitch. Glaring at me, acting snotty. I almost asked her what the fuck her problem was, it was really starting to piss me off.

Toward the end of our meal, when she came by to ask if we wanted dessert, my daughter said, "Daddy, can I get x?" Waitress' entire demeanor changed instantly. Suddenly she was sweet as pumpkin pie and I realized, holy fuck, this goddamn bitch assumed I was some old pervert fucking around with an underage girl.

I was a teenager when my daughter was born. I'm now in my thirties but look ten years younger, she's 18 and still calls me Daddy. While I can understand how someone might think this is something else, fuck them for assuming. Fuck them for judging someone and treating them differently when they have no goddamn idea what the facts of the situation are.

Hateblade · 2015-02-24T17:35:31+00:00

This very issue was one of the big parts of swallowing red pill for me. I still have both my children's passports and won't give them up. Bitch me would have given in and let her run off with them to her home country like she threatened to, but post red pill me told her that I would personally track her down to wherever corner of the world she tried to hide in, get my children back and make her pay. I mean it too.

Be glad you're able to work and co-parent with your ex. A lot of us don't even have it that good.

mnhgreass · 2015-02-24T04:07:23+00:00

don't worry about thing that you can't change. you will live longer and happier

SpeedMetalPunker · 2015-02-25T02:00:55+00:00

This pisses me off so much. Feminism has infested every social area I'm apart of. The beer tasting club I'm in has had not one but 2 women only events. If the men decide to do the same they'd lose their minds. And 1 of the women who's in the club on facebook was talking male privilege. Fuck off. Women clearly have the upper hand in society.

KyfhoMyoba · 2015-02-24T23:02:54+00:00

Here's the way to look at it: Everyone knows - even subconsciously - that a father values his kids more than their mother does, that's why there's a greater chance of a man running off with his kids than a woman doing so. A woman has to get someone to help her, like a judge.

circlhat · 2015-02-24T09:50:33+00:00

I know the feelings, I just got accused of molesting a infant. Stay strong it happens to all of us.

iluminatiNYC · 2015-02-24T15:34:49+00:00

WTF? As someone who needs to apply for a passport for my child soon, this is scary. But that is some bullshit.

Dev_on · 2015-02-24T16:02:09+00:00

I guess the question is... is it really a probelm with dads running off with kids? Or is it just hyperbole.

Might just end up being a reasonable request. I would be much happier to find it based in evidence, and not dogma

Waldo00 · 2015-02-24T19:24:30+00:00

Could have just been one suspicious person who dealt with you.

SuperRuub · 2015-02-24T09:53:47+00:00

Im wondering if this isnt the right course of action as there are probably a lot more kid abductors who are male.

Am I wrong?

Exactly_what_I_think · 2015-02-24T03:42:47+00:00

STFU

Kill the version of yourself that thinks "Venting" is doing any good.

Trust me you'll feel better.

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