[Discussion] Less good-looking women tend not to breed

Wallstreet3 · 2019-12-22T12:13:44+00:00

In America, less good looking and fat women have more sexual partners than attractiive and healthy weight women.

Kos_-_Omak · 2019-12-22T14:44:27+00:00

This is one of the dumbest things I've ever read here, which is saying a lot.

Go to any trailer park or urban ghetto neighborhood and look at all hideous/fat single mothers and their hoodrat children running around everywhere.

Less attractive women can have trouble finding men who want to commit to them or get married, but they have zero problems finding dudes who are DTF.

reluctantly_red · 2019-12-22T11:46:01+00:00

In America ugly women breed like rabbits.

Jr10101010 · 2019-12-22T13:26:01+00:00

There is always a simp around desperate enough to breed with even the ugliest woman.

DaphneDK42 · 2019-12-22T12:33:24+00:00

Less attractive women is why God invented polygamy. Just ask Leah and Rachel.

majani · 2019-12-22T14:13:37+00:00

Juggernaut law says differently. What is juggernaut law? Well, a LOT of men's sexual strategy involves avoiding the hottest women with the reasoning that uglier women have less suitors and are more grateful to be having sex/ in a relationship. This ends up in women on the average and ugly side of things actually having more suitors overall than extremely pretty women (the quality of suitors is another matter, but we're talking about numbers here).

2019-12-22T12:05:47+00:00

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2019-12-22T13:06:51+00:00

I think it depends a lot on personality and individual experience. I think a lot of people refuse to compromise and end up alone as opposed to going with what's on offer. Also it depends on how much a person is influenced by societal standards of good looks.

As far as having children is concerned - a lot of pregnancies are accidental. I never wanted children though and have often wondered if this was an inbuilt thing ie when you veer too far away from the norm genetically there's an inbuilt thing whereby you also don't want to breed. I have always known instinctively that I wasn't meant to have children.

Also if you don't fit in due to your face not fitting etc then you fall back on your own resources more and observe how society works from the outside more and can feel like you don't want to be a part of it anyway ie you get used to outsider status. You get together with another outsider type who doesn't want children either and you can be relatively happy.

Nodoxxintoxin · 2019-12-22T13:53:29+00:00

Absolutely disagree. Ugly people in my rural area tend to not breed. But go to any decent sized city. Women who don’t breed are often better looking. Single women without kids, take better care of themselves, have time and money for gyms and personal trainers and don’t let themselves go to shit.

Orange_Paisley · 2019-12-22T14:17:01+00:00

I’ve been to a Walmart and trust me, unattractive people are breeding just fine.

Pastelitomaracucho · 2019-12-22T13:41:20+00:00

You are on meth, op

Dublin_M4ledom · 2019-12-22T14:57:02+00:00

LOL someone has never been to Ireland!

SmurfESmurferson · 2019-12-22T15:30:08+00:00

of my culture

Where do you live?

BumblingBeta · 2019-12-22T21:50:46+00:00

Seems like your decision to not breed is out of choice, rather than because you couldn't find a mate. You admit that you couldn't find someone as ugly as you attractive and you don't want to have ugly kids. So technically you could find a partner. Unlike incels, who cannot find anyone.

I do see a decent number of fat ugly women turning to things like BDSM or becoming angry raging purple haired feminists. Because like you say, these women internalised a bunch of messages and can't accept the fact they can't get hot partners like the more attractive women can.

Workaholiconew · 2019-12-23T14:26:52+00:00

Ehhh.... DNA data shows that women pass down their genes from 2 times(modern day) to 17 times (7 thousands year ago) compared to men... where did you get this statistic?

black_snake_m0an · 2019-12-23T22:33:21+00:00

It's okay to date someone below your smv. Better than shooting too high and getting shot down.

But I disagree. At least here in Pennsylvania, pretty much everyone is fat and ugly and everyone has kids.

2019-12-22T10:45:35+00:00

Thats just one of lifes ugly truths. Everything involving other people is harder depending on how unattractive you are. Relationships, sex, marriage and having kids in particular.

you could always get sperm from a spank bank, if you were so inclined... but it sounds like you arent and I dont blame you. I wouldnt want to pass on a horrible genetic defect either.

On the plus side, having no real legacy to worry about means you can live a purely hedonistic selfish existence. Be lazy, get high, live as a beach bum, work on your novels. None of its really going to matter so you as well enjoy your brief stay on this planet

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Zippo-Cat · 2019-12-22T13:07:08+00:00

Accept polygyny in your life and you too can have a handsome boyfriend.

catbrainland · 2019-12-22T15:59:02+00:00

Disagree partially: It's a recent effect of modernity, it didn't exist before. Suggesting it is entirely socially constructed, perhaps also entangled with dropping fertility. See chinese concept of "leftover women". You seem to over-focus on female beauty. Yes, it's important to a woman to woo high quality male. It's not important to breed as such - that's always your choice. This argument is somewhat supported by mt-DNA vs y-DNA (most women did historically breed, while only a fraction of men did).

Indifference or even rejection/picked upon for being lower on the totem pole physically/socially

This is quite interesting insight and I'd really like to hear from less attractive women if this is how they feel about it, especially how it factored to stay single by having this as a guidance of their standards about a mate.

lennygotplenty2025 · 2019-12-22T16:42:45+00:00

What`s your culture and background?

Animalcrossing4eva · 2019-12-22T17:11:32+00:00

I don’t think it really has anything to do with looks. You didn’t get married and have kids because you didn’t really care to. If you do you would have made it happen. It’s a cultural thing.

bobdolesdole · 2019-12-22T20:18:33+00:00

Since around 85% of women have children it doesn't really make sense to care too much about what percentage of those that don't are less attractive. 85% of women means that almost everyone who wants to have children, has them. In this case, your standards are clearly, even by your own admission, too high.

If raw genetics are so important, sperm donation and or Tinder will make that a lot easier, but age wise you have an uphill battle.

Controlling for morbid obesity, throwing a pair of tits and makeup on a woman it's almost impossible not to at least find a male 6 that won't pull out.

2019-12-22T22:21:18+00:00

Four women procreate for ever male that procreates.

Some of the People of Walmart creatures I've seen heavily pregnant or with multiple rugrats speaks volumes to the level of male desperation.

How one even finds the vagina on the hag faced welfare whales I'll never understand.

2019-12-22T10:27:29+00:00

Less attractive women are invisible and the society would like it to stay that way. Having children while being unattractive makes you more visible and "normalizes" unattractive women. It says "these women are women as well" which some people just don't like. For some people, "true women" are only women they could fuck.

If you watch closely the insults hurled at female public figures, you'll notice most of them revolve around their "non-fuckability" (even if these women are attractive). Why is this tactic used? Because non-fuckable and non-agreeable women should just shut up and pretend they're not there. Controlling female sexuality or lack of it is the key component of controlling women,be it your wife, your neighbor or a female politician.

Unattractive women breeding goes against the notion of invisibility of these women. That's one of the reasons the media doesn't show it, the other being that nobody likes to see unattractive people (which imo is a media myth). The patriarchal society penalizes ugly women for having children.

Btw, you still have options to have kids and you don't have to give up. You don't need a husband to have a kid.

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DubsPackage · 2019-12-22T20:40:46+00:00

I don't think it's about "society sending messages."

I think it's just that nobody wants to do date down, people date up or across.

Looks, height, race, status, money, personality, chemistry, etc etc, these are all considerations.

The main asset any woman has is reproductive value, you're trading an excess of reproductive value for an excess of provision value.

In the new millenia, with women's earnings going up, who knows how this will play out.

We can say that women earning more "breaks" relationships, or drives women to seek higher SMV to compensate.

My own personal theory is that this will settle down over time for one simple reason : "It's the only game in town."

For men, women are the only game in town.

For women, men are the only game in town.

Unless you want to munch carpet or play hide the salami, no matter how dysfunctional gender dynamics become, men and women have nobody but each other for love and companionship.

People who can't afford a Lexus drive a Honda. Hey it's wheels, what else you gonna do, walk?

Title	[Discussion] Less good-looking women tend not to breed
Author	Frequent_Task
Upvotes	21
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Date	December 22, 2019 8:13 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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