How can men say women are gold diggers, when men will use women for sex, therapy, emotional labour, IMPREGNATING US TO MAKE SURE WE GIVE BIRTH TO THEIR FUCKING KIDS, and our LITERAL MONEY, and somehow the term "gold digger" is 99% of the time applied to WOMEN?? HOW?? How did men turn it upside down like that?
Also, when men use the term "gold digger", they say the woman is using them for their money. That's just ONE thing in the man's life being used, compared to the 15 different things men will use women for. THE AUDACITY.
And even if a woman truly was a gold digger, and the man leaves her, he has lost a bit of money, THAT'S ALL. If he is not broke/has a good job, it won't affect him much. Whereas if a man has used a woman to get some kids, and he leaves, she's stuck with the burden of those children for life. Not to mention that as women we have less privileges, sexism in the workplace and everyday life, make less than men...so when a man uses a woman, she loses so fucking MUCH. She truly takes a hit which sets her back due to her sex.
MEN have been using women's wombs and labour since the beginning of time without their consent...and somehow WOMEN are the "snakes" (seriously I see so many men use the word "snakes" in place of the word "women") and "gold diggers" in society....WHAT???
Anyway I have to thank all you FDS queens for helping me to think so critically. I've been lurking FDS for 6 months now, and it has helped me see all the bullshit men try to pull with women. I was laying in bed at 1am trying to fall asleep when this thought appeared in my head. My eyes shot open and I knew I had to post it on FDS 😂.
EDIT: OMG I had to look it up. Even the word "gold digger" is in the DICTIONARY and it says "usually a woman.....". Men make up the most misogynistic terms and somehow make it fact...this proves how much influence and power they have in society.
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