I'm really happy to have found somewhere where people see the same thing I do with men. That 50/50 means 90/10 for instance. Feminists don't really grasp the issue here, sometimes they can quote statistics on how much of a workload married women take on, but I guess what's missing is a more exact criticism of do nothing men and what Women can do about it. I suppose they are too busy encouraging women to find empowerment by sleeping around than holding standards to men to avoid those situations.

Men buy milk ONE TIME, and not because they're out of milk but because they were instructed to by their life manager (wife or gf) and think theyre single handedly keeping the relationship together by doing so much. They have no idea what food their kids have at home, but the mental work of looking, remembering, and managing them doesn't qualify as work to them. It's invisible to them, and they think buying milk on their way home is 50% of the work, %60 if they have to try buying a specific kind. Never mind the work pf selecting the best option was done for them.

My ex loved pointing out that he did sooooo much for me, and complained that I didn't reciprocate. When I asked...what are these things? Because it certainly wasn't that he respected me, it wasn't that he listened, it wasn't even that he gave me things I wanted, or took me places I wanted to go. He didn't even go through the motions of "doing so much" and bitched and complained whenever I did anything I wanted. His response was....he went to work and bought a house. When I didn't want that house, im suppose to clean the fucking house ( pick his socks up off the couch every day) and I'm working too?! and the thing is , I didn't want the arrangement he made with his friend which was a shared mortgage. 💀 he would be working and have a house if i didn't even exist, and he did it for his fucking friend anyway.

Point is, as you know, they expect your 90 for their 10. Fact is I gave him the same energy back and he felt "neglected" bc I didn't praise him for having a dick and being a functioning employee