I tapped one of my female colleague "Sara" on the shoulder and said "hey. I'm taking my break now. Can you take the customer phone?"
The other female colleague disturbed me during my break another time giving me a whole monolog saying she didn't ment to be "bossy" when telling me when I could take a break. And I accidentally laughed at her saying I was not offended but it was kind/sweet that she wanted to make sure i was not upset
-she told my boss I said she looked cute
The other one threw my jacket into a fridge once and said she was to lazy to take it out when I asked her why.
(I have no clue what she has against me except I said once I don't think university is as good a deal as many claims. ( she's a student)
Btw. The last one... Has some vibe..... It's the same vibe my narcissist ex had but I don't know this new girl so much that I can really judge. Next time we worked she was very sweet and helpful.
In terms of talk I treat them the same as my male colleagues. "good work. Thanks. Take care. Hey how are you" I'm a bit more physical with my male colleagues with fist bumps and taps on shoulders too.
(I have developed a habit of tapping people on their arm or shoulder to get their attention since in my previous work it was a really loud environment and it's an effective way or directing someone's focus back to you)
I never linger, never caress, never grab.
I don't know what to do.
I have two more weeks at this job before I have to leave and I don't know what I dare say and do.
Please help. Have I done anything wrong?