Man realizes he is trapped

I_am_Groot69 · 2019-05-14T09:10:26+00:00

This is depressing.

Docbear64 · 2019-05-14T08:29:06+00:00

I really do weep for these guys . I used to wonder about the guys who I'd worked with who never seemed in a rush to get home . I like my job but I like my place with my stuff in it more .

I can't imagine what it's like to only have a place of peace at work . That sounds like being in a prison or a personal hell.

Last_Avenger · 2019-05-14T08:00:27+00:00

Another day... another statistic

toxicgreencapsules · 2019-05-14T10:57:28+00:00

Financial ruin?
The money he makes, goes straight into the household budget and her purse, to which he will only get pocket money in return.

The house?
He just lives in it, and has no authority over it.
At best, he owns the garage and shed.

selfism_mike · 2019-05-14T08:58:27+00:00

Behind every successful man there is a woman he is horrified to come home to, so he rather spends his time working.

The50Gunner · 2019-05-14T10:28:27+00:00

Oh, she likes sex, all right, just not with you. You working is the best part of both of your day, because you're away from that hitch and she's getting banged out by Chad and Tyrone.

And, yes, she did use sex to trap you.

mgtow_daddy · 2019-05-14T08:56:35+00:00

Yeap, I am getting more and more sure women only use sex when they want to gain something.

That, ornthey are total nimphos. Nothing in between.

formerlydeaddd · 2019-05-14T11:17:21+00:00

Little known fact:

the male orgasm is equivalent to the female's clitoral "stimulation" or "clitoral orgasm" as it is sometimes referred to as. It has nothing to do with the G spot, (medical term: skene gland) which is an actual erogenous organ, located within the female's upper vaginal wall. Clitoral stimulation (or clitoral orgasm) is actually considered to be the less fulfilling "orgasm" - It leaves many women craving stimulation, immediately after [it] being stimulated. Stimulating a woman's clitoris is often utilized in foreplay, before penetration, where-as, orgasm achieved via G-spot stimulation is usually considered the "full female orgasm" The MALE sexual organ, (the penis) is, for all intents and purposes, biologically, an enlarged/elongated clitoris. Men also have a G-spot, also known as the "prostate gland" (in males). Since men do not typically submit to penetration, their clitoral spasm is the climax of their sexual experiences.

With this in consideration, it only makes sense that men would crave sexual intercourse in the hours or days after orgasm. Our orgasm is literally the body's way of saying "good job, you managed to fuck, but, now you need to keep fucking to ensure impregnation"

MikeRocksBoat · 2019-05-14T11:45:34+00:00

You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it.

DangZagnut · 2019-05-14T11:01:40+00:00

Someone found out reality is real.

2019-05-14T08:25:10+00:00

Typical settler's trap. She was never truly sexually attracted to the guy in the first place. Anyone who thinks women don't date/fuck men they aren't legitimately attracted to is leaving himself wide open to get taken advantage of.

jeabben · 2019-05-14T14:09:45+00:00

If she "doesn't" have a sex drive, there might be "something wrong with her".

She's cheating.

ConfidentActuator · 2019-05-14T10:14:02+00:00

Oh she absolutely loves the sex! Just not with him.

vetiarvind · 2019-05-14T12:31:26+00:00

I know a guy like this. Tried to offer him advise, even straight up told him to divorce his horrible wife.
Eventually he ended up trying to backstab and humiliate me infront of everyone. Frankly, simps deserve what fate gives them. Let em suffer.

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2019-05-14T11:50:17+00:00

At some point, freedom is worth the financial ruin.

I’ve been living in a fucking shithole apartment for years now. It has been worth every cent lost. When the child support is over, I’m going to jump for joy!

BalthierMaxwell · 2019-05-14T11:42:23+00:00

The funny thing is I know plenty of men who say that marriage is the best option when you get older because married people have way more sex, than men who are out every night trying to get laid. *face palm*

TheAnarxoCapitalist · 2019-05-14T12:48:42+00:00

Oh, she does love sex... Just not with the beta provider.

KujoSadao · 2019-05-14T10:26:42+00:00

It is the same as putting food in out of reach in front of a starving person who is chained up.

Men are forced to fulfill their side of the bargain, but women are allowed to breach their contracts.

Thermotastic · 2019-05-14T12:55:51+00:00

You don't even have to be married to deal with this kind of shit.

You can pay for nearly all the bills and women still think they are entitled to take more. Bitch better grow up.

Shagthedog · 2019-05-14T11:22:34+00:00

The financial ruin happened when he got into that deal, he has nothing to lose now, its already lost. Id let her go and give her half of everything. I'd get out my chainsaw buy 5 or6 extra chains and split that house right down the middle.

CountOrloff · 2019-05-14T13:07:58+00:00

Better to be poor and sane. I'd walk.

Fantoche_Dreemurr · 2019-05-14T15:41:08+00:00

Why would she give him sex? She's cheating on him on the side and she has his money. If he tries to leave it's divorce rape time

2019-05-14T12:25:16+00:00

If your wife or girlfriend isn't having sex with you, she's having it with someone else.

That's one of the hardest red pills for men to swallow.

supermario218 · 2019-05-14T12:34:33+00:00

God this is so depressing. It's a trap, a living hell hole trap. I say take the money and leave the country.

NightOuts · 2019-05-14T14:34:18+00:00

oh, she's fucking ... she's just not fucking him

Stahlboden · 2019-05-14T14:46:02+00:00

Everything I do is for her and our kids.

The kids were never yours, fool, only the paychecks.

secondachiever · 2019-05-14T15:15:32+00:00

This poor bastard. This was my life before I escaped the plantation. The psychological stress from constant denial of sex is real, and it's seriously defeating to men. It'd be better for this guy to go broke and start over a free man than be in this marriage.

squiddy_s550gt · 2019-05-14T12:12:22+00:00

Once you realize money isn't that important you can finally be free.

They try to trap us with debt and threat of losing money, but it's a mental trap

lostapwbm · 2019-05-14T15:36:49+00:00

I'm not saying get some side pussy, but...

trancedj · 2019-05-14T18:28:01+00:00

Imagine how many western men live this way. I’m so glad I escaped this prison, and despite the scars that I sustained in doing so, I am free.

theugly008 · 2019-05-14T13:13:27+00:00

I feel bad for him, but he could just fuck escorts and eventually get a divorce.

panzerbier · 2019-05-14T15:18:16+00:00

I bet that just a few years ago he would have scoffed at us MGTOW "losers".

Some guys believe it when they're told that the stove is hot, others need to burn their own hands on it first.

Teflon187 · 2019-05-14T16:56:34+00:00

ah the good old years of my youth, working with a guy who wanted to stay at work till dark in the summer, obviously because he didn't want to go home to his wife. He wasn't greedy or had to have nice things. just simply wanted to not go home.

edit: he ended up dying in his front yard mowing the lawn at like age 55. He drank a lot (wonder why) but was a hard working man that you wouldn't expect to go that way.

starkfuture · 2019-05-14T17:17:58+00:00

She still likes sex with other guys. She just doesn't want him because she has him in the hook already. Now she can do whatever she wants, whoever she wants.

realChebz · 2019-05-14T18:05:15+00:00

Oh she likes sex alright, and I am sure she's having plenty. Just not with the guy.

He says he read every book he can, i can guess what kind of feel-good mainstream garbage these books advocate. Probably shit like "treat her with respect", "buy her gifts", "give her space" etc.

The guy should start talking to a lawyer asap. He has three options - financial ruin, life of misery, or ghost and leave country.

a17c81a3 · 2019-05-14T19:50:46+00:00

And the trap closes... but we are all just stupid incels right?

Crypto will set you free gents.

dakd2 · 2019-05-15T03:14:29+00:00

sounds like modern life I am glad I took a psychotic break from falling deeper into it

99MilesOfBadRoad · 2019-05-14T17:01:10+00:00

Oh she likes sex, just not with him.

Mb1983_ · 2019-05-14T17:03:37+00:00

"The only place I can escape this is work"... I was thinking recently about the prospect of someday being married and having kids, and exactly that thought occurred to me; that going home would no longer be the escape from work but that going to work would actually become the escape from being at home. That is a depressing thought!

Swizzie7 · 2019-05-14T17:24:11+00:00

This hurts just reading it ... Hope it gets better for him.

MrTywin · 2019-05-14T17:26:19+00:00

"suicide" her. then go your own way! :D

NameBackwardsisNirok · 2019-05-14T17:33:24+00:00

Those two just dont sound right for eachother. I have faith he can find someone.

RevolutionaryPea7 · 2019-05-14T17:49:18+00:00

The blue pill. Not even once.

friggandfrayed · 2019-05-14T18:51:18+00:00

How sad that women have given this much power without ever earning it.

FalsePositiveRethink · 2019-05-14T19:33:42+00:00

Eighteen years in baby jail.

zubbs99 · 2019-05-14T19:53:25+00:00

We think of young women as blooming flowers. Really they're venus fly-traps. Be careful bro's, or end up like this broken dude with the life sucked out of him.

FaustoLG · 2019-05-14T20:13:17+00:00

Not if an "accident" happens...

hewhoisnotyou · 2019-05-14T20:49:57+00:00

Why do I always think of this when I read of dead bedrooms. After years of marriage, red beats blue...

TheSud007 · 2019-05-15T02:23:47+00:00

LMAO she loves sex just not with you bud 😭

2019-05-15T05:17:31+00:00

did she ever like sex? not with you Beta Billy

RegiusGeralt · 2019-05-15T06:47:25+00:00

It's a TRAP!!!!!

KingRagnar1588 · 2019-05-15T07:09:39+00:00

KingRagnar1588 · 2019-05-15T07:14:46+00:00

Sounds like my marriage. She is biding her time. If something better comes along she will pounce on the opportunity even if he's not really better. Save your money. She may take you for everything she can. I was unhappy n didn't want to have the financial headache. I just cheated whenever bc I was not gunna waste my twenties n regret it later. She got tired if me not divorcing her n finally left. Cost a good bit and child support sucks but I'm happier.

U-94 · 2019-05-15T10:01:52+00:00

I never understood 'workaholics' who stayed at the office all night until I had a girlfriend waiting for me to get off work.

2019-05-15T11:58:54+00:00

Honestly, this man should get divorced anyways. He is already out all his money either way

Deadwood70 · 2019-07-26T14:01:13+00:00

Ah yes like the wild wolf unknowingly caged by the trapper. Your existence and purpose is to roam free, strong and healthy and the right one will follow.

Often, over time, a woman will reveal to you who she really is. Go with your gut instinct. Its like peeling layers of an onion when it comes to a womans ego and personslity.

You are never trapped my friend. Youve just cone to realize who she really is abd now your not quite sure if you want it. Its ok, some things just arent meant to work out.

bman0001 · 2019-05-14T22:49:59+00:00

Does this woman possess the last vagina in the world? No doubt she's well aware there are other cocks in the world.

2019-05-14T14:54:15+00:00

She does like sex, probably just not with you. There is no such thing as a sexless marriage. If they stop having sex with you, it means she's probably getting it else where, preferably by some chad.

AncapGhxst · 2019-05-14T20:04:24+00:00

Duh.

Daylyte12 · 2019-05-15T06:37:18+00:00

You can just take a test drive on a relationship to discover the bumpy ride 😂 doesn’t take much to be a hamster on a wheel lol you’ll be running for dead life 😝 the only way to be free is to go back to zero and start again or die

Title	Man realizes he is trapped
Author	ConstantChinner
Upvotes	759
Comments	148
Date	May 14, 2019 7:47 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/boftva/man_realizes_he_is_trapped/
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