Chick's a month shy of 29, been banging all her previous guys and walking. Now she's two year into this relationship. She's a stone cold 9/10, he's a 6 (by her measure, be advised that chicks rate 80% of guys as average or worse). He's got five kids from another marriage, only is allowed supervised visitation for 2 hours a month and is 7 years older. But the killer point is, how much coin he makes. I kid you not. Chick is not happy about the money, especially since she doesn't have a job. Two years in, she's ready for him to suck it up, marry her and find steady work to pay for her and her babies. Oh, and her therapy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nNQE9VYWPsk

She starts talking about how he needs to make money at ~52 minutes in.

Chicks do not care about you, about your feelings, about who you are, about what you want. Chicks care about WTF you can do for them. Unless you are Chad.