Fact: Women really do want to be dominated in bed.

There can be debate about many aspects of TRP, but if there is one thing I've learned in life, if there is one thing I know to be true, it is that women want to be dominated in bed. I think there are two important reasons why this is so.

The only exceptions might be women with a personality disorder or latent lesbians, but even then it's a safe bet that a sexually dominant male isn't going to be a negative in her view.

I've also found that the more dominant you are -- and don't confuse dominance with selfishness -- the more satisfying the experience is for her. I wouldn't go as far as bruising a woman, but that line is something I'll walk right up to every time. I just don't cross it. (Though I have had women relish a small bruise, thinking it's sexy and a token of just how much her man desires her.)

Male sexual dominance unlocks something really wonderful in women. I think it's similar to compliance, or gratitude. Don't underestimate its value.

What's ironic is that the current beat in culture is to feminize young men and make them passive. If this succeeds, it will result in sex that's less satisfying for women. It might be congruent with their politics, but it won't be satisfying. To me this is as big a cultural mistake as letting women have the vote.