Is therapy cheating?

I initially thought you were just trolling but your other posts are pretty gay too so I’m going to take this seriously.

OP posted the following in relationships.

I feel like I’m always walking on eggshells and accommodating her to make her happy

Put your self first. Putting aside your own needs in favour of hers is not attractive.

A BILL OF ASSERTIVE RIGHTS

I: You have the right to judge your own behavior, thoughts, and emotions, and to take the responsibility for their initiation and consequences upon yourself

II: You have the right to offer no reasons or excuses for justifying your behavior

III: You have the right to judge if you are responsible for finding solutions to other people’s problems

IV: You have the right to change your mind

V: You have the right to make mistakes—and be responsible for them

VI: You have the right to say, “I don’t know.”

VII: You have the right to be independent of the goodwill of others before coping with them

VIII: You have the right to be illogical in making decisions

IX: You have the right to say, “I don’t understand.”

X: You have the right to say, “I don’t care

You have the right to do all of the above and not feel guilty about it.

it turns into a huge deal every time I put my foot down and try to do something I want

This is because you have zero frame and she doesn’t give a shit about your needs or desires, why would she, you don’t even care about them enough yourself, you’d rather put them aside to make a woman happy, the only thing is, it doesn’t it has the opposite effect.

We’re both unhappy right now but we want a better future when we’re married. Would we be happier with other people or would any relationship evolve into this eventually?

Bro seriously you need to read the fucking sidebar, no relationship is going to evolve naturally from this shit show to marital bliss, her lack of respect disgust for your beta behaviour will only grow.

You gamed her for a week? Come on man who wants to be gamed by a career beta with zero frame, who’s asking Internet strangers for permission on who to live his life, get your shit together your a man aren’t you?