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[–]mercybenelliFDS Newbie200 points201 points202 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
That’s an abuse tactic. My narcissist dad does the exact same thing when you call him on his bullshit.
[–]cremeblushersFDS Newbie[S] 49 points50 points51 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mine too :(
[–]Newwavesupport3657FDS Newbie32 points33 points34 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same. Absolutely petulant and pathetic.
[–]MermaidCatgirlThrowaway Account39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Adjecting "narcissist" to a male is redundant tbh. It's the norm!
[–]2340000Ruthless Strategist12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Haha. You bet it is.... The terms are nearly synonymous now...
[–]favoritesoundFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Really? Is there a title for this? I’d love to read more about this.
[–]bonjourchaton2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
guilt tripping
[–]pissed_afFDS Newbie90 points91 points92 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
"Ok I'll never ever laugh again at anything so I don't offend you" (he liked making up shit and mix it with real stuff so he could laugh at me for being so gullible and believing the fake parts of his stories).
[–]cremeblushersFDS Newbie[S] 36 points37 points38 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That sounds so toxic and frustrating I’m sorry and hope you’re away from that person :(
[–]pissed_afFDS Newbie18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I didn't even remember this. Some red flags just woooshed over my head
[–]Newwavesupport3657FDS Newbie83 points84 points85 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
A go to response (depending on if he's violent or not,) "ok, if you want to be melodramatic about this, that is your choice. Don't speak then."
[–]cremeblushersFDS Newbie[S] 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugh I need to use this
[–]blackpatchouliFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
THIS
[–]stonemermaidFDS Newbie49 points50 points51 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I wish in the past I would've said "Do you promise?" instead of immediately jumping to coddle their dumbass feelings lmao
[–]electric_taffyFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow I’m using this in the future, thank you.
[–]sardonic_flare41 points42 points43 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahaha this is every "sensitive, brooding artist" guy I know
[–]balladwildsFDS Newbie40 points41 points42 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
this or "you're so sensitive, relax" both are annoying af
[–]cremeblushersFDS Newbie[S] 26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
“No one can joke anymore?” Meanwhile their jokes are about rape murder and sexism
[–]balladwildsFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
its hilarious because when we make actual jokes about them they go off and get all angry bc of their fragile egos... make it make sense
[–]favoritesoundFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Time to start joking about how small his dick is. Oh, no one can joke anymore?
[–]cremeblushersFDS Newbie[S] 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I approve of this message 👏
[–]malibooyeahFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Sure they can, you just have to be... funny."
[–]ironymaiden87FDS Apprentice23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Either way it's like they don't want to be held accountable for any shitty thing they do and they certainly don't ever want to know about how we feel. So disrespectful.
[–]balladwildsFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
exactly. the second you get either one of these sentences is your cue to leave.
[–]BurningSalamiFDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’d be fine with that, but they never keep the promise!
[–]ironymaiden87FDS Apprentice26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Literally my ex. Childish, narcissistic and pathetic. He had to be the victim in every fucking situation.
[–]jenneschguetFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This literally just happened tonight at work. A colleague and I were talking about how I won’t get a gun, due to the link in gun ownership and domestic violence. He jokes “don’t make it domestic then” and I state that he isn’t taking my point seriously and that the conversation was over. He ignored me the rest of the shift. Maybe don’t joke about domestic violence to a women who went through it? Or at all?
Links of sources to my statement:
https://academic.oup.com/aje/article/160/10/929/140858
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2019/07/22/us/gun-ownership-violence-statistics.amp.html
[–]Gaki-fan-too-1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Doesn't he know a woman can hide the gun?
[–]spin_the_globeFDS STRATEGY COACH16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why are men like this?? I have encountered this at work, in relationships, friendships, etc. State a boundary and they're an instant angry child with "Fine, I'll never xxx again!" It's like they're all given a script. Nobody told you to never xxx again, bro, just be a damn adult and learn how to engage appropriately with people.
[–]cremeblushersFDS Newbie[S] 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s because they’ve been coddled all their lives to think that their dumb opinions and thoughts actually matter, then can’t function when they’re confronted with the truth
[–]GraveyardH2020FDS Apprentice12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Me: “ugh I had a really hard day at work today. I feel so blah. Do you ever feel like that?”
Him: “I can never seem to make you happy, no matter how hard I try, it’s just never enough. I think it’s best for you to find someone else and I’ll just remove myself from the relationship”
Me: wtf just happened...
[–]sadgirlhappydemonsFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
S/o to my ex boyfriend when I broke up with him after a fight we exchanged final statements and when I said thank you for the lessons you taught me he couldn’t handle it and said “stop texting me” Bastard
[–]fairywakesFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’ll never speak again?
Fantastic.
[–]prettyexcitingnewsFDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugh so immature... 🙄
[–]farevvellFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Promise?"
[–]novaspacecraft4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You gotta respond with agreement at that point tbh. They wanna play games? Then good for them but you don’t gotta do it. Let them not speak, it’s a blessing.
[–]cremeblushersFDS Newbie[S] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yep play stupid games, win stupid prizes
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[–]cremeblushersFDS Newbie[S] 36 points37 points38 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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[–]sardonic_flare41 points42 points43 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]balladwildsFDS Newbie40 points41 points42 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]cremeblushersFDS Newbie[S] 26 points27 points28 points (4 children) | Copy Link
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[–]favoritesoundFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]cremeblushersFDS Newbie[S] 8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]malibooyeahFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ironymaiden87FDS Apprentice23 points24 points25 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]balladwildsFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]BurningSalamiFDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ironymaiden87FDS Apprentice26 points27 points28 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]jenneschguetFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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[–]spin_the_globeFDS STRATEGY COACH16 points17 points18 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]cremeblushersFDS Newbie[S] 11 points12 points13 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]GraveyardH2020FDS Apprentice12 points13 points14 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]sadgirlhappydemonsFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]fairywakesFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]prettyexcitingnewsFDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]farevvellFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]novaspacecraft4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]cremeblushersFDS Newbie[S] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link