" I saw your post on that one subreddit. Can’t remember the name of it now. Look, it’s a toxic community. Some of them are good, but some are bad. You are free to have an opinion but please, just listen to me for a little bit. Paying for what you eat is good. It shows that you are respected and shows that you are equals. If not, it seems as though you take the high point, and while that may sound good, future guys will start to avoid you. As well as the thing about chasing a man. If he shows no interest, don’t go after him. If he shows a little bit and you rrreeeeaaaalllyyy like him, he’s worth it. Not everything will come to you which seems to be what some people on that sub believe. That will never be the case. If you don’t fight for something, you won’t get it. Take a job interview for example, you have to chase that job and get it. The job does not chase to get you. Also, going with the toxic community thing, height. If you have seen enough on that sub, you will see that some people on there will judge a man by his height. I recommend you do not do this. Coming from a short guy, we can’t help genetics. And when someone doesn’t like us because of only that, it really is heartbreaking. It’s already heartbreaking enough because we go through every single day hearing that we’re so short. Nothing lowers our self-esteem more. If you consider them, give them a chance. See if you like them. Go for someone who you truly love, not for someone that other people think is attractive. Please. And even if you don’t take any of my advice, good luck. But really, a lot of people on that sub are stuck up about who they think they are. I hope you find someone and can settle down with someone nice. "

​

Yes, I really received this message!!

​

Update on my situation: I told the fuckboy I was chasing I was too busy to see him for the foreseeable future when he asked to hang out. He was shocked! Since then, a high-value man I know asked me out for coffee a couple of days ago...