The truth is, not every HVM you come into contact with will be compatible with you.

I keep seeing women here make posts asking for advice about a HVM they're dating and getting anxious and desperate about his level of interest, and they soon reveal they've abandoned other FDS rules like dating other men simultaneously. Stop putting all your eggs in one basket! A lot of the time these women have long histories of LVM exes and they're thrilled they've finally netted a HVM instead of the usual trash, and they stop dating around to focus all of their efforts and energy into the HVM they're dating. This is a mistake! Until you get an engagement ring on your finger, you're not exclusive with anyone. I see so many women get fearful about losing their HVM dating interest that they start sliding back into old Pickmeisha habits. They get clingy, they overanalyze everything the HVM says and does, and they turn into a hot emotional mess.

When you find yourself getting too attached is precisely when you should double down on FDS strategies. Add some new men to the Scrotation, pick up a fun new hobby, go out with your girlfriends, or otherwise do something to Level Up. Don't stay at home staring at the phone hoping and wishing he'd call. You've got better things to do.

Furthermore, the HVM label isn't permanent and indestructible once you've applied it to a man; if you think you're dating a HVM male but he pulls so low value shit, he's not a HVM anymore. Period. Remember, we have to be ruthless! That means dumping these men immediately when they fuck up, and never looking back. You'll always know where you stand with a HVM; if he stops being interested, he'll let you know in a respectful manner. If he suddenly ghosts you for two weeks and pops back up like nothing happened, he just revealed he's a fuckboy.

The End Goal of FDS isn't just to net a HVM; it's to find a HVM who's compatible with you at a deep level.