Drive 30.6 miles for a guy? Nope.

Myheyday8 · 2020-06-29T18:13:02+00:00

Also, I love the fact that he thought the first face to face interaction we should have should be at some random ass mall. Just no effort whatsoever lol.

stillcantsee · 2020-06-29T17:15:13+00:00

“You should come down here” is code for:

I have no car
I’m too broke for an Uber

No thanks!!

Capable_Okra · 2020-06-29T18:15:56+00:00

Lol I had the same thing happen a few days ago. Was chatting with a guy who lives in a city about an hour away from me. He was like "well if you're ever in [my city] let me know, we can wander around" and I replied "I don't have any plans to be in that city soon, but we can make plans if you'd like" and surprise surprise... Radio silence!

Summerisle7 · 2020-06-29T18:24:55+00:00

I finally learned after a LOT of wasted time, not to bother chatting with men who lived too far away. 30 minute transportation time is the outside limit to try to date someone. JMO

chateauduchat · 2020-06-29T19:54:50+00:00

What is with men today who expect women to do all the driving? If a man expects me to do that, he’ll be paying my gas and then some.

YesNoMaybe87 · 2020-06-29T17:02:28+00:00

Nope

breadandbunny · 2020-06-29T19:59:17+00:00

I flew from coast to coast in a long distance relationship at least five times. If someone isn't going to find a way to get to you, smh.

atreethatkeepsgrowin · 2020-06-29T18:29:05+00:00

so lazy

Lavender_flow · 2020-06-29T20:25:08+00:00

yeah because he couldn't possible come to you. LOOOOOOOOOOOL! and then you have all these fucking losers crying over on redpill etc. on how OLD is a "woman's game" and how "women get so many matches" and blablabla. Like they are so fucking low effort and then they cry SO much about having no dates- there is a reason why LVM don't have many dates and it is because they pull shit like this.

Also, meeting at a mall. Is he for fucking real?

Good on you for block and deleting him.

PretzeIs · 2020-06-29T17:08:25+00:00

The nerve.

terribletimingtoday · 2020-06-29T17:10:16+00:00

Wrong answer. It should have been..."hey, I'm off work today. Would you like to get together for lunch/dinner? Do you like (some restaurant in your town) Great! I'll see you at..."

hilariouslystated · 2020-06-29T20:24:55+00:00

30 . block and delete.

StudentNo · 2020-06-30T01:35:24+00:00

OMG I've had this happen too!! The worst is when I was chatting to a guy that seemed genuinely promising and then he asked me OUT THE BLUE if I fancy driving 40 miles to come meet him after I had been at work all. I replied with 'HA ha ha nice try' and blocked him. Boy BYE 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

drslvtr · 2020-06-30T04:40:48+00:00

It's so sad. When someone wants to see you they make the effort.

This weekend a lovely guy drove three hours to see me and we had a fantastic time together. When they want someone, they go for it. They make it happen.

Title	Drive 30.6 miles for a guy? Nope.
Author	Myheyday8
Upvotes	78
Comments	23
Date	June 29, 2020 4:57 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hi3msc/drive_306_miles_for_a_guy_nope/
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