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[–]pinkliquorFDS Newbie69 points70 points71 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Lol I was helping my ex with bills, buying groceries, cleaning, helping him out in any way i can, yet he was still miserable and mean despite my love and support. Fuck that guy. I’m not anyone’s mother or therapist.
[–]noavocadoshereFDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i would wash dishes whenever i was over--mostly because it would a) bug me b) i understand having a long day and c) it's a nice thing to do for someone--but the day that fool talked about how he had sooooo much to do while i'm sacrificing my hands to dirty water and could hear him playing videogames, i knew he was a joke. capital J. men take advantage of our kindness and deplete it with their selfishness and inability to be considerate.
i never liked the treat 'em mean and keep 'em keen + marry a man who loves you more than you love him methods my family members preached because it's not who i am, but the foolishly naïve ideals i had about love led me to be trampled on repeatedly and lovebombed/gaslighted whenever another piece of my shattered rose-colored glasses fell out.
[–]CapableLetterheadFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is my life story with my ex. Fuck em. After that I met my husband after a few guys and he's fucking wonderful. I only put up with it thinking all men were shit.
[–]noliver2986FDS Newbie154 points155 points156 points 4 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
This is my meme!😀 I made it in meme generator and posted it on FB. I didn't realize that it got popular until I noticed this morning that it had 600+ likes🙂
[–]alittleoutmymindFDS Newbie[S] 32 points33 points34 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OMG YOU ABSOLUTE GODDESS!!
[–]DarkSparkyShark6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are a hero.
[–]irrelephantphotonsFDS Disciple11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nice one!
[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist200 points201 points202 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
This was me. I paid most of the bills, cooked, cleaned his nasty underwear, went to all his rugby matches, had sex with him twice a day...
... and he still fucked 21 year olds behind my back 🤣
Whatever, his dick is tiny.
[–]Havest22FDS Newbie50 points51 points52 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
holy shit thats horrible
[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist51 points52 points53 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yep. He still owes me money, too!
[–]Hinampak32129 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OMG. I am so sorry you had to go through that horrible experience! Glad you’re able to get out of that relationship. Hope you meet the right person for you soon. You deserve a great one!
[–]prettyexcitingnewsFDS Disciple42 points43 points44 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuck that guy. So sorry to hear that sis, you deserve much better.
[–]LordDunderheadPickmeisha™️28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Probs felt so insecure about it he desperately needed the extra validation from young and easily impressed girls lol
[–]mydogwillbeinmyheart21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Sometimes it's best to prioritize other things such as character, kindness, etc. above physical appearance. It is a tough lesson to learn for both men and women. A lesson learned too late for some.
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
but you should still be physically attracted at least lol, you can't just throw that out the water because they seem 'nice'. Any man will act 'nice' if he thinks he has a chance of fucking a girl way out of his league. If you don't have physical attraction you're going to end up with deadbedroom sooner or later.
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[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Trust me stay woke with these uglies lmao they WILL idolise you cos they know damn well they're punching and if they don't act so nice they have zero chance. Imo that is still superficial attention from them because if you were average or below they probably wouldn't act like that. Settling only benefits men! I also settled when I was younger and tbh it only got me treated marginally better. Insecure men will still cheat and try to control out of insecurity and the sexual attraction is only going to go from meh to 'Not tonight babe' to 'omg I can't do it anymore'. I refuse to date uglies now shit even the chads tell me not to settle, even they knew I was settling. I used to be so bad for underselling myself in the looks dept because 'personality!' and theres a reason I always dumped them & didn't feel strongly enough. As I've matured I've realised physical attraction really matters and its not something to just overlook....cos it will be the reason you dump them years later after deadbedroom otherwise.
[–]M1nettePickmeisha™️49 points50 points51 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I see it happening all the time in germany by women who ought to know better. We have totally spoiled german men so that they expect it now from their women, all the while they are out shopping for a "docile" asian girl who they will provide fully for. I am half german, half asian myself and born there so i know what i am talking about.
[–][deleted] 25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
YES! Finally someone acknowledges it. Shitty men start at home. The worst ones are all spoiled by their mothers.
[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I saw this show about Italian men that said something like 50% of the adult men there still get their laundry done by their mothers. So messed up. One of my pet peeves is women who spoil their sons. Ugh. So gross. Teach them to be fucking men you selfish women! They are not your little “buddy” at some point. My youngest is 12 and has been doing her own laundry for a year or two now. Smh.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Though the ones who aren't spoiled and whose mothers challenge them, are quite headstrong conscientious guys who know how to respect women, and have some direction in life to become a man and have a decent job, which makes them FAR better than all the non-Italian men I come across as far as those traits go.
[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Thank god for these mothers! I see too often mothers just babying the hell out of their kids and creating a dependency on them because they need the kids because they are either single or in bad marriages. The kids are a surrogate form of the relationship they don’t have with a man. My friend has two adult children (20 and 27) living with her who don’t cook or drive or anything adult-like. She is 100% to blame for keeping them in a childlike state. Forget her husband - he is completely passive and a manchild and she takes care of him too, and he’s not nice to her at all. I’m so glad I taught my kids to be self-sufficient. I know men in their 70s who can’t even fry an egg or boil water, it’s crazy!
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Those types of women who 'need to be needed' are to blame for this, for creating dependency in their dependents and codependency in their partners. Their paranoid fear of empty nest syndrome drives their whole existence. It's sad, it also means that her offspring never separate and become self sustaining human beings without her. Sometimes all kinds of unconscious manipulations abound to the point it's basically Munchausens by proxy where they unconsciously sabotage their own care, and create a situation that allows her to 'prove' that her children can't do anything without her, and therefore they need her to baby them. It's so common, this smothering. I've heard of mothers managing their sons' finances even...
[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly! It’s so deep with my friend that if we go out and her adult kids come along, she is a totally different person. She is totally focused on being in control. If it’s just her and I, she’s super cool and fun. It’s so dysfunctional.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am Italian and all my male relatives in my generation are man babies by the standards of regular society. My brother is in his late 20s and still exempt from any household obligations, even grown man stuff like mowing the lawn. 50%!!!!! That seems so low LMAO
[–]gilianabananaFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also half German here. Last guy I dated called his mom in front of me to complain about his roommate because he washed his shirts wrong. He sounded like a child. Spoiler: he is one. 😂🤷🏼♀️
[–]fistfulloftoscaFDS Disciple11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I will never live with a man again unless we are engaged, or married. I learned that lesson when I was 23... moved in with a guy, hell, moved to another country to be with him, and as soon as that happened he expected me to be his live-in maid, chef, and therapist.
[–]pumpernick3lFDS STRATEGY COACH4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well at least you weren’t already married or engaged before you found that out!
[–]PandaLLCFDS Newbie72 points73 points74 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
+ I'll change him
+ I'll make it up to him that his parents drunk, his mothet committed suicide, his miner father was killed in a mine
+ I'll be with him fwb and not fall in love or just to hear he can't be with for real because if she can sleep with him, she can sleep with anybody
[–]prettyexcitingnewsFDS Disciple24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
2nd one, I feel guilty. Ugh!! We are not their therapists. No obligation to take responsibility on that.
[–]PoorPlainObscureFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh yeah, the hybris of women: Think that my love will turn a worthless fuckboy into a good and loving man. Then realize that he knows that women think like this and it is part of his fuckboy routine to make us think that we can save him by loving him no matter how badly he treats us.
[–]venus-scorpio-marsFDS Disciple21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ughh this makes me want to slap myself. I was TOTALLY the fool who thought I could make up for his horrible upbringing. I was also the dumbass who excused his actions because of it.
[–]bitchyrussianbotFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Same. Now I’m happily divorced, in a respectful 3 year relationship with a younger man who pays our rent. Ex is 40 and still lives with family.
[–]moderatefemmeFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The second one was a huge problem for me too! I kept thinking if I overcame my trauma then they'd be able to as well with love and support, and then they'd be grateful to me as the woman who was there for them. NOPE. Never again!
[–]rainbowforeskinFDS Newbie40 points41 points42 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some ladies need this tattooed on their friggin faces
[–]Havest22FDS Newbie29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
i dont understand the "split the rent" part?
[–]AnniaTFDS STRATEGY COACH27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I do think that in an established relationship if you live together/are married, you should be splitting bills that could include the rent, groceries and other living expenses shared by the two in a manner according to income and that benefits both. If he's rich he should be paying the most of those aforemention bills. If he's not, than share it in a fair manner. But always be smart with money. Save money for yourself and share the bills in a way that won't be bad for your finances. Always have enough money of yourself to be able to support yourself if you have to leave.
I'm supposing of course you chose a man of value to live with/marry, not a loser bum.
When it comes to dates, specially in the more initial stages, he should be paying and courting you, not splitting the bill. Dating and stablished relationship have different nuances. But in general you should never be supporting a man and paying for everything, which is what that clown girl of the post would be doing.
[–]noliver2986FDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I meant girls who split the bills that their man should be paying; meanwhile he's spending the money he's saving on the sidechick 😉
[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lol, if he doesnt pay the rent hes not serious about you.
[–]pumpernick3lFDS STRATEGY COACH5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Splitting the rent is okay, everything else is not. We should add “do all of his chores for him and be his 2nd mommy” to the list too.
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[–]TheMarbleSlabRuthless Strategist21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And then he tells you he wants polygyny after years of monogamy. 🤦🏻♀️
[–]AnniaTFDS STRATEGY COACH23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Gurl, this clown meme always make me laugh no matter the context. Spot on.
[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same though. It's so good.
[–]westmosoFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Clown shoes: lets his abusive, narcissistic, obsessive control freak of a mother run roughshod over you then turn on you for not being in awe and grateful for his mom being "just the way she is"
Clown outfit: engaged for 10 years headass
Not my story but the story of many on a sub i read too much lol
[–]PatunjaFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
OMG. This is me right now and I want out!
[–]noliver2986FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Just leave. Get your money together and go.
[–]PatunjaFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Update: I got him out!
[–]noliver2986FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes!!!!😀
[–]PatunjaFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh for sure. Working on getting him out of my house safely (for me).
[–]TheOGJammiesRuthless Strategist3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Rooootflmao 🤣🤣🤣
[–]Tonera4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This one hurt a little
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Lol, women who split the rent always make me fucking laugh lol. Must be a 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
[–]noliver2986FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Right? Basically a roommate that you sleep with. What is even the point?
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. The fridge will be split down the middle too. How fucking pathetic lol. Men want someone to complete them rather than compliment them that's what a partnership is lol. Completing. Lol its seen as low and beta status because if a woman leaves him he will be less than, and wont be able to afford the rent, rather than have a place he can invite or offer to a woman.
All these losers want a submissive woman but a woman only submits to a provider. Lol
[–]polyv_areyoumeFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ouch! This one hit close to home!
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Lmfaooo
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