Women, what do you think of tickling? Is it always sexual, or can it be nonsexual between 2 adults?

2021-01-30T23:30:47+00:00

WTF? Someone tried to tickle me sexually they are in for a mighty bad time. I get way too spastic. Last time a bf and I had a tickle fight I got so wiggly that I flew off the couch and somehow in the movement he accidentally elbowed me and I got a blackeye LOL

iloveyoubutyou · 2021-01-30T22:32:15+00:00

It can be platonic as friends and family members do that to each other all the time. It's only sexual if it turns one of the people on.

sublimemongrel · 2021-01-31T01:17:27+00:00

Ew nobody is tickling me thinking that shit is sexy get off, I hate being tickled. There are adults who genuinely like being tickled? Let alone find it sexy?

thelajestic · 2021-01-30T23:16:55+00:00

I don't think it's ever sexual. Unless it's like gentle tickly stroking. But actual tickling/tickle fights are too unpleasant to be sexual 😅

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-01-30T22:38:35+00:00

It's gay as fuck is all I know.

ThrowawayCOVID999 · 2021-01-30T23:14:40+00:00

No man don’t ruin another childhood memory for me I don’t have many good ones.

death_by_1000_cats · 2021-01-30T23:13:54+00:00

I am extremely, adamantly, rabidly anti-tickling. Every guy who's tickled me only did it once because I made it very clear I do not like that shit. And not in a "LOL stoppppp" way but in a "If you don't fucking quit it right now I'm out the door" way. I hate it so fucking much. It's the only thing that truly triggers my "fight" response. If someone tickles me I will scream, hit, kick, scratch, bite, whatever it takes to get them to take me seriously and stop.

I have two older brothers and as a kid they used to pin me down and take turns tickling me until I cried or threw up or peed my pants. Absolutely merciless. It's literal torture and I don't find it funny at all and have never tickled anyone on purpose, ever. I'm about to have a baby and I've told the ticklers in my life that they will not be tickling my child. I just don't like it and it upsets me to see it.

I don't really care what other adults do with each other and if they like tickling in sexual or non-sexual contexts that's not really my business. If a guy had tickle fights with his bros that would seem pretty gay to me though.

In general women don't really roughhouse with each other the way men do.

Kaylxx_sm · 2021-01-30T22:51:10+00:00

Yeah I've never tickled anyone in a non platonic and playful way. Family, friends, kids of family and friends, partners. With partners I usually want to joke around with annoying them a little bit to help them relax or something. But other than that, never felt the urge to do it sexually no.

AffectionateFox0 · 2021-01-31T01:32:57+00:00

Your friend tickle play fighting with you with his shirt off is a little gay ish

I don’t like tickling because it was done to me against my will and being forced to laugh through something you hate is sick.

flapperfemmefatale · 2021-01-31T02:06:33+00:00

I hate being tickled, platonically or otherwise.

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-01-31T04:31:44+00:00

Just watch the documentary and get your rocks off

angeladimauro · 2021-01-31T04:40:46+00:00

I don't think tickling is inherently sexual (tho u should have consent to touch the person as per usual), but it can lead to sexual scenarios and can also be an outlet for releasing sexual energy.

AngelxEyez · 2021-01-31T16:19:57+00:00

Easiest way to kill a mood and have me never want to touch or be near you again, romantically or platonically!!!!! Tickling is NOT enjoyable for a lot of people

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bearpi728 · 2021-01-31T02:32:39+00:00

If ticking is sexual then my brother would be sexually harrasing me and it would be incest.

athrowaway283222 · 2021-01-31T06:13:43+00:00

Definitely not sexual (unless one of the people is attracted to the other and gets turned on or something, but it's kind of weird in that context in my opinion). I'm really ticklish, always have been and the cousins closest to my age are like siblings to me -- sometimes we torture each other this way.

Out of love, of course.

_mwk · 2021-01-31T07:16:58+00:00

it's a declaration of war

nopestratimus · 2021-01-31T18:57:09+00:00

slow and soft is sexual
fast and hard is not

I have never met someone who got turned on by their ribs being rubbed roughly, the heat n friction hurts mannn

87AudreyHorne · 2021-02-01T07:47:27+00:00

It's awful and I will kill anyone who tries it but of course its sexual (not sexy, but as in, the person who does it is motivated by the need to touch you) unless its little kids or some of those very touchy feely people with the same gender. To be fair if another girl tickled me I would feel its inappropriate, let alone a guy.

ivy176 · 2021-02-01T09:00:46+00:00

Tickling is really unappealing and unattractive to me

SaBahRub · 2021-02-01T15:08:42+00:00

My opinion is you’re looking for free masturbatory material, and I don’t appreciate cheapskates.

Title	Women, what do you think of tickling? Is it always sexual, or can it be nonsexual between 2 adults?
Author	CNN4life
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Date	January 30, 2021 10:18 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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