"I get to dictate how my wife lives her life because her looking after our child is a turn off and I don't respect mothers"

Pasdepromesses · 2020-12-24T20:08:23+00:00

Also, what’s up with the ‘should I reconsider this relationship?’. Tf dude, you just actively and intentionally started a pregnancy.

Snugglyy · 2020-12-24T20:30:20+00:00

I’m convinced the concept of a young bachelor wanting to be a husband who can support his family one day has been fully bred out of millennials and gen Z men. Like, they legitimately can not fathom being providers.

Entitlement this deep towards motherhood and the 50/50 scam is the result of systemic conditioning through pickme, libfem and misogynist mothers raising sons.

AlexxyaKat · 2020-12-24T20:27:39+00:00

It’s the assumption that stay at home mom means no work for me

DallasOMalley · 2020-12-24T20:59:34+00:00

They weren't actively trying to get pregnant was but stopped using protection? What the heck. Assuming she consented to skipping the contraception, what on earth was she thinking?? He's clearly a conceited asshole, of course, but I'd be interested to hear her side of the story on why the "we'll just do whatever" approach seemed like a great idea.

SarcasmSlide · 2020-12-24T22:57:53+00:00

I don’t want to date a stay-at-home mom.

He talks about her like a random Tinder match and not a forever girlfriend he purposely impregnated and is buying a house with. This poor girl thinks his promotion means their promotion and she’s about to learn a very hard lesson about why he doesn’t want to marry her. Never ever build with a man.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-12-24T19:54:52+00:00

What a prick. Also daycare for 40+ hours a week is probably going to cost more than whatever she's going to make. He's just bitter and sees her rasing a child as a vacation he doesn't get. And he's making tons of money. And considering how long he is he's only going to make more and more money. What an ass.

Also the comment about how they weren't "actively" trying to get her pregnant and yet they were having sex regularly with no birth control. That is actively trying to get pregnant jackass!

SwirlyButterfly · 2020-12-24T21:39:52+00:00

Alot of men look down on stay at home mothers, because they view it as as doing nothing. Yet, these same men would never agree on staying home all day with their children. Also, why would anyone prefer to send their young child to a daycare in the middle of a pandemic, if their spouse wants to stay home and they're able to easily afford it? I guarantee you hes still going to expect her to do most of the childcare and housework, just with the addition of working 40 hours a week.

Maude2010 · 2020-12-25T00:37:45+00:00

The part that jumped out at me was how he doesn’t want to “date” a SAHM, who is going to be the mother of his child, and with whom he is planning to live with in a house he’s going to buy for the three of them.

chateauduchat · 2020-12-24T22:29:16+00:00

I hope Sam gets an abortion, otherwise she’ll be a single mother. Men take NO pride in providing anymore.

honeybeeroll · 2020-12-25T07:48:09+00:00

Wtf is going on here, why tf are people having kids with someone they're not married to, and when they've never discussed the logistics of raising children 😑...The way he worded how the pregnancy happened is so sus. I assume it means she got accidentally pregnant because he pressured her into no protection or both their dumb asses decided not to use it.

Also anyone else find it a red flag that she didn't know at first how much his new salary would be? Why would you wait to tell your serious bf/gf that when you get the raise, you'll be making X?

Samvanderkamp123 · 2020-12-25T05:56:45+00:00

Honestly, she has made a series of bad decisions here. This guy is fundamentally selfish. Then she gets pregnant without getting married. That is financially disastrous for her.

He’s going to bail, once he’s figured out how to pay the minimum in child support.

KindlyPassenger · 2020-12-25T05:14:27+00:00

He's flat out admitting what most men secretly think. SAHM are at so many disadvantages in the relationship dynamic, it's not what I would choose

Title	"I get to dictate how my wife lives her life because her looking after our child is a turn off and I don't respect mothers"
Author	Saeyato
Upvotes	59
Comments	33
Date	December 23, 2020 11:30 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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