She wants to be treated like who she is.

AceMav21 · 2021-02-26T16:08:07+00:00

You just described the average college thot

Entheogeneration1111 · 2021-02-26T15:27:03+00:00

To put it another way - you want to be who you really are.

Noone really wants to have to play this game where we pretend to be better than what we are, there's no authenticity or aliveness in it. Men want to fuck, women want to get fucked.

Reality is so much better than all this societal bullshit we've been participating in.

-since · 2021-02-26T16:07:40+00:00

Every modern day girl lmao.

Fuck em like a short term swing trade. Do not invest.

Original_Dankster · 2021-02-26T19:44:32+00:00

46% of women in the US, and 47% of women in the UK have tattoos.

The link above doesn't factor in age, so if you figure millennial women into that, it's probably higher (because Gen Z, Gen X and especially boomers have far fewer). I'd estimate more than 2/3rds of millennial women have tattoos. Tattoos are a 100% total deal-breaker for me for a relationship.

Add in leftist politics, between 69 - 76% of US women are leftist (stats vary based on congressional vs presidential polling).

66.9% of women are overweight or obese (amazingly more are obese than simply overweight, which is mind-boggling to me)

Given these numbers, I'd figure about 10% of women are even worth considering for a relationship. That doesn't include the narcissistic social media users.

It's a fucking disaster out there. If you want to attract a decent, modest woman who isn't a fat pig, you'd best believe they're in high demand and low in supply. So being a top 10% man is the only option if you want an actual relationship.

Of course tattooed leftist broads are fine for a ONS or as a plate, but that's not the subject of discussion in this thread.

FormerBradFutureChad · 2021-02-26T16:00:46+00:00

Very good post in my honest opinion as it not only mirrors how I was brought up, but also my recent experiences and findings with younger women and your 5 points are spot on and the absolute basics of vetting plates.

... females. I approached every single one of them thinking that there is potential for us to have the same thing that my parents have - after all, that was the primary male - female relationship that I've been exposed to all my life.

This is also a very very important point that I believe is the main reason younger guys fail with women and it's because of the environment that they are exposed to. I'm 22, but it was only last year where I took a huge step back and realized that the reason I'm pedestalizing these women and catching oneitis fast is because I'm mirroring or rather overlaying an ideal version of this girl with my parents' relationship.

That being said I'm in an ltr atm with a girl who was raised the same as me in terms of culture, traditions and values so the oneitis is back, but approaching it with a RedPill lens is very refreshing and beneficial. I can 100% guarantee that if I didn't find this subreddit and found this girl, I'd have stuck to my old ways of pedestalizing and simping if you will.

Great post.

Woujo · 2021-02-26T20:26:40+00:00

Trying to calibrate your treatment of a woman based on who you think she is will never work. You have no fucking idea who she is. She can be the nicest, most well-kept woman on the outside and be a fucking monster on the inside. She can also be tatted and pierced up slut but still be a complete fucking sweetheart to you. You're not a mind reader and it is a waste of your time trying to "figure out" a woman so you know what to do and say in front of her.

Instead of trying to deliver custom service based on your preconceptions of a woman, you should instead just treat women based on how they treat you, which means that you don't treat any woman like she is worth anything until she does something to deserve it. You should treat the Queen of England like you would like an OnlyFans slut: you act nice and friendly but you don't actually give a shit about her until she does something meaningful for you.

Secondly, you should always treat every woman with the following assumptions until given further notice:

She is a freaky slut and already wants to fuck you and do dirty, socially unacceptable things to you; you just have to make her comfortable expressing that
No matter how she looks on the outside, you are her dream man and she would be really lucky you to get any of your time and energy.
Like 99% of people, she was never done or said anything noteworthy or important so you have no reason to kiss her ass, no matter how hot, rich, cool, or popular she is.
Like most people, she sees herself as worthless and hates herself, which means you shouldn't blow smoke up her ass about how awesome she is but at the same time you shouldn't be an asshole to her for no reason either.

The most problem with most chodes is that they form an idealized image of a woman in their heads, and they assume that if she is well dressed, attractive, and well groomed, then she is somehow a "good" girl that deserves special treatment. Don't do that. You treat every woman like you would like treat a nice friend you just made at the bar until she does something to deserve better treatment.

WhatIsThisAccountFor · 2021-02-26T19:16:15+00:00

The amount of American women without at least one of those traits between the age of 18-25 has got to be below 5%.

The amount without one trait and also above a 6/10 looks wise is probably below 1%.

I think the title of the post is pretty profound, and almost undoubtedly true, but you’re really just finding the most common traits women have in general and saying “she a thot”.

This is just AWALT with extra steps.

I agree with your beginning. Men struggle with women because we need to act in a way almost opposite of what we are taught in order to succeed with women. I think this is also the reason for the significantly higher presence of herd mentality among women compared to men.

Women for the most part are rewarded for conforming. They know from early on what men like and what men want, so the success or failure with men they experience reinforces that what they are taught will mostly be true.

Men need to go out of our way to seek truth, which gives us more of an individualistic mentality.

oldskoolflavor · 2021-02-26T17:45:02+00:00

We all started our adult journey thinking of having something similar to what our parents had. That shit is over. Long gone. Times now are so so so much different. Women are so different, men think like pussies and cater to any careless feminist idea with hopes of getting laid. Men stopped being men. Women stopped being women.

As my father, who I thank for getting me red pilled so early in life said "these days, girls want to drink like their dads, while guys act sensitive and childish like their moms".

strikethrough123 · 2021-02-26T17:04:14+00:00

You can have the most perfect girl. Zero red flags, good parents, conservative upbringing, good education, good job, good moral upbringing, no provocative pictures on social media.. and she will STILL have fucked 30 dudes by the time she’s 20.

When will you fuckers learn that none of that shit matters? If your perceived SMV is high enough she will suck your dick on the first date no matter who she is.

JagsDontCare · 2021-02-26T18:00:30+00:00

I disagree. Sure, these are the obvious red flags so play at easy level but for the most part she’s still not your girl, just your turn so you should treat as such....temporary.

Usmc5523 · 2021-02-26T21:54:30+00:00

Lol dude my parents have been together over 20 years and their marriage is the opposite, it’s a nightmare. It had the same impact on me basically. My dad has tolerated all sorts of disrespect from my mom that he should’ve left her for. It really is unfortunate, and very hard to change your ways when that’s all you were exposed to.

Luck-67 · 2021-02-26T19:21:34+00:00

Old AF old school player here. Generally a good post and as long as the reader doesn’t go full autist on one of the points, it’s a good general message.

What I have seen that commonly differs is that if the parents remarry into a stable situation, the kid doesn’t usually grow into being a whore. The drinking and drugs thing is, and has been spot on. Forever.

The main thing, is hopefully no one tries to white knight these situations.

xcomical · 2021-02-27T03:53:07+00:00

LOL, just described my ex girlfriend. Blue-pilled hard for her. We were on and off for four years. Every time we were “off” though, I’d start doing my own thing, seeing other girls. I didn’t realise it, but I was using RP tactics on these other girls because I didn’t care about them and funnily enough that’s when she started wanting me back. My BP dumbass couldn’t realise it until it was too late.

-ThePathIsTheGoal- · 2021-02-26T22:59:05+00:00

This is literally every girl. 95% of them are just really bored.

Saint-Owl17 · 2021-02-26T18:49:55+00:00

Good luck finding a girl who checks none of these and is still hot. What you’re talking about in fine is a bloody unicorn

bjbdbz2 · 2021-02-26T21:31:29+00:00

Cognitive dissonance is a bitch. Cant treat her like a princess when she knows she got railed by three different guys last week.

hockeyaddict87 · 2021-02-27T02:34:10+00:00

I haven’t met a girl that was less than 3/5 of those

skorpandrija007 · 2021-02-26T16:29:04+00:00

I just didnt get one thing from the post, so you are saying if she checks all the boxes treat her like a whore, and if she checks none treat her with a certain dose of respect

odddkidout · 2021-02-26T22:44:36+00:00

Dated a girl who use to drink everyday. It was a disaster. She had 2 frames one that doesn't care and other that will do anything (drunk).

mlfan256 · 2021-02-26T22:57:38+00:00

It is no secret that children of divorced on average do worse in life

Well they are according to your blue pill mentality of marriage being a win. If you really think marriage is unnatural and bad from the start, which actually half of TRP mods endorse, then they actually make more sense than you. And they have more fun.

Just_Stark · 2021-03-01T06:38:49+00:00

This is more of a reply to the title: I've come to the same conclusion with a few variations. (I also address the post)

A woman wants to experience herself through your lens of perception. In reality, she has no idea "who she is". When she changes her hair color, she feels like a whole new person, that's how transient a woman's personality is. She could be sucking someone in a club bathroom when she is 24 and acting like a prude when she's 26 because she needs to rebrand herself as a housewife.

When you are able to take a look at a girl, and see the difference between who she is and who she pretends to be, you've basically won. She will put on a facade, but when you show her that you see the sides she's ashamed of, she will be very receptive. It shows you're attentive, that you can flirt, without falling in the blue pill constant validation mindset. That facade might even be little bits and pieces she has kept from past relationships (as well as personal experiences and upbringing of course)

Maybe slightly off topic, but I've had instances where a girl in a relationship showed interest in me, and generally speaking, they will try to identify with what they think you find attractive. They will have a specific pattern with their current boyfriend, and show a different side to you. If you fall in the trap of acting the same way her boyfriend does, she won't be interested because she needs to create a new dynamic. If she changes bf, she wants to change identity.

With one of the girls, her boyfriend was clearly lower value than her, so she showed very high interest as soon as I entered in her circle. He was constantly trying to put her down playfully, because he realized that was the only way he could feel superior and keep her. She put up with it because she had no interesting option and she was extracting value off of him as well. I actually lifted her up, not in a beta-validating way, but by showing the example. I don't need to put other people down when I know I'm already above them and when I'm confident. It then made her bf's tactics look like straight up insecurity. He even started mate guarding hard at some point.

All of this to say that it depends on the situation. But a woman will like to experience herself through your lens of perception. It's all a magical adventure to her. She wants you to show her sides of herself she didn't even know about. If she is going to leave her current reality, she wants you to take her to a completely different one. She doesn't want a v 2.0 of her previous relationship. And it all comes back to you being yourself and her reacting to you, and trying to get your validation.

So I think your post has good guidelines in the part of "identifying who you are dealing with", and can help create a rough mental model of how her brain works and what kind of approach would work best. What kind of woman she is. But ultimately, once you've identified who she currently is, the whole process will be her mirroring who you are and trying to validate herself to you. If you try to emulate who she is, or keep feeding into her current beliefs, you won't bring much value to the table and she will quickly lose interest to chase someone who's different.

rubenescaray · 2021-02-26T19:33:39+00:00

When you get rejected by a girl. It may not be her, but her lifestyle that is rejecting you.

Roetnaer · 2021-02-26T17:56:46+00:00

If she has she/her and/or BLM on her insta,

she's basic as they can come. Herd mentality. treat them with assertive asshole behaviour for the best outcome.

Example of my cold texting routine:

Me: sup girl

Chick: Hey

Me: What's up wit u

Chick: nm wbu

Me: Waiting for u to sit on my lap

Works every damn time.

zUltimateRedditor · 2021-02-26T20:22:42+00:00

The correlation between bikini pics and willingness to hook up is super interesting.

Problem is, those aren’t the types I attract. For me it’s the weird pansexual leftist types or the super boring “take it reallllllly slow” types.

Ur_X · 2021-02-26T21:38:46+00:00

One additional point on IG followers. If she follows more than 5k people when she only has 700 followers, look for how she is constantly comparing her self to others, signals low self esteem

mlfan256 · 2021-02-26T22:44:59+00:00

Honestly most girls who have tatoos did not do them with "impulsivity".. they think for a few weeks / months. In france at least

BrownGummyBear · 2021-02-27T00:47:25+00:00

I only have one tattoo which I got in my late 20s after thinking about it for (literally) years. The symbol I got has a lot of meaning to me. I think the tattoo thing depends, what I would judge is: how many tattoos, how big they are, in which body part they are located, meaning behind the tattoo

wisule · 2021-02-27T01:05:41+00:00

Folks, this is excellent information. I especially like the part about the "I'm the prize" mentality.

About substance abuse: Some folks eventually grow up and stop doing these things. You can think of it as an indicator of her maturity. For college students: after college, it's called addiction. All of the good candidates quit some time before they leave school.

senseless-apprentice · 2021-02-26T16:00:01+00:00

Why are tattoos seen as something negative in the rp? I have a few and they were not impulsive decisions.

Title	She wants to be treated like who she is.
Author	gladiator1995
Upvotes	281
Comments	65
Date	February 26, 2021 3:01 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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