I'm one week into recovering from double mastectomy + reconstruction surgery. My SO spent the week at my apartment to cook and care for me, before driving back across cities to return to work.

I developed a yeast infection from antibiotics and he picked up suppositories. That night he was sponge bathing me in the tub. I moved into a squatting position, and the dissolved canesten juice came shooting out... now I know why they say to insert at night instead of the morning, but anyyywaaaay... I was admittedly a bit embarrassed but there was no reaction on his part; he simply asked if it was helping the discomfort. After getting dressed, he thanked me for being so vulnerable with him, acknowledging the situation and stating how honoured he was to help with such a task.

I told him later how uncomfortable wiping was for me. He immediately offered to wipe my butt if needed. I never thought such a phrase could be so heartwarming. Thankfully I didn't have to take him up on that.

Always vigilant, always vetting. But I wanted to share this green flag as it made me laugh, too.