I’m a retired attorney & new Men’s Divorce Coach. What topics would you be willing to be willing to pay for information on to get you through your divorce process or wish you had help with when you were getting divorced? P.S. I’m not trying to sell anything.

IvoShandor · 2020-10-22T00:19:14+00:00

I have to pay a coach on top of my attorney? It’s like having an agent AND a manager.

Trinity0519 · 2020-10-21T23:58:39+00:00

Drafting a separation agreement
Drafting a prenup
Choosing a good lawyer who won't rip you off
How to get 50/50 custody
How to deal with property division and not lose out

voyagerblue · 2020-10-22T00:17:18+00:00

What to do when your lawyer won’t call you back or answer emails.

dookieeatinggrin · 2020-10-22T01:12:44+00:00

How to make a case that the spouse is unfit in order to gain more custody and reduce spousal support. Dealing with extensive documented verbal abuse towards children and myself.

used2befast · 2020-10-22T00:20:40+00:00

How to fight a bad PRE report

KneeDeepThought · 2020-10-22T11:19:19+00:00

Discovery. Hands down spent more time gathering all the required paperwork for the discovery phase as opposed to everything else. Took weeks of work and I had to carry a banker's box full of docs to my atty's office. If someone could have helped me understand and streamline that I would have paid well for that service.

Audisans · 2020-10-22T03:09:45+00:00

What do you think are the things men should know or do as soon as they know they are headed down the divorce path?

Brokenbyher2019 · 2020-10-22T04:54:38+00:00

Pay someone to find a good attorney, referral
Explain all the unwritten rules about divorce that aren't explained right away.

a24hrdad · 2020-10-22T12:29:51+00:00

Figuring out where to start and then what to do. It's seems pretty common that a lot of guys (including myself) get blindsided.

eyeyamyy · 2020-10-22T14:19:49+00:00

What communication should be written and what should be discussed w/council +STBXW

Pitfalls to avoid when talking to the STBXW

What you can do to save having to pay an attorney to do

sexytimeinseattle · 2020-10-22T17:50:39+00:00

When is it better to negotiate with them directly, and when is it better to fight.

I think it's often tough knowing which is which.

bikecoguy · 2020-10-23T15:21:07+00:00

I’d be interested in an attorney coach to help devise a strategy for the pro se work I’m doing. Someone to point me in the right direction and inform me of the laws that could help my case. My ex has unlimited $ and I’m a NPO executive Director - she has an attorney and I do not.

Any-Bell-5512 · 2020-10-28T01:33:37+00:00

How does one find someone like you in their/my state?

PhilupMcCrack · 2020-10-22T12:23:35+00:00

I made many poor choices. One of them was, as soon as she signed the agreement, I decided to refinance my gigantic house in the burbs thinking i was going to continue to live in it and get her name off it as soon as humanly possible. I did that, then, I put 10k in renovations. Then 4 months later, I realized I was paying 12k a year in taxes and living in a house a family would require; not a single guy. I ended up selling it for what I payed for it. If you tally up the swing in this scenario its outrageous; 3 closings in 3 years, breaking even on the sale (which is basically a loss in real estate), all those fucking taxes 12k/y, the idiotic idea to continue to live in a gigantic home in the suburbs, the investing in reno's; COULD HAVE USED U THERE.

My attorney did wear the hat of listening beyond his duties and I did ask him about this. But maybe a third party, an influencer, could have changed course. Good luck to you.

EzraThereaux · 2020-10-22T02:34:23+00:00

OP, can you describe for us the difference between law and colorable law?

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