Mother Loses Custody After Preventing Father Seeing Child

Exitbuddy1 · 2021-05-21T11:43:30+00:00

I haven’t seen my daughter since Oct 11, 2019. Before that my ex kept her from for a year and half. My daughter is 8 as well. I wish this was the outcome I could look forward to when we finally get a court date in July but in Texas there’s not a chance. It’s absolutely ridiculous.

naw-bruh · 2021-05-21T10:42:07+00:00

That selfish-ass bitch didn't even care that she was harming her child. To her the only thing that mattered was hurting her ex-husband. She should have all of her visitation rights revoked, permanently.

felafelsmoke · 2021-05-21T09:07:38+00:00

A happy ending

Dalyb218 · 2021-05-21T10:50:27+00:00

I wish this happened more often. Maybe parents would think twice about making children the spoils of war.

pbmadman · 2021-05-21T11:58:58+00:00

Ahhh, Australia, makes more sense now. I was thinking this was US at first and was totally shocked that it went this way. My ex tried more or less the same stuff during my separation and divorce. It worked out in the end, but it really opened my eyes to the wild inequality in divorce and custody law and precedent here in US.

The thing that really gets to me is that she doesn’t have a job and I have to support her but if I didn’t have a job she wouldn’t of had to support me. I just would have been an unfit father and not had any custody until I got a job. Ok, enough ranting about me.

I totally get why certain custody and child support and alimony laws exist, but if they can’t be written and enforced in a gender neutral way then they are just unfit for purpose. In situations like this case I always like to look into what’s happened in similar cases but where the genders were reversed. It’s so frustrating.

Bull_Winkle69 · 2021-05-21T11:51:01+00:00

Essentially the mother gaslighted the daughter by telling her the father was a threat and would kidnap her

This is child abuse. Instead of removing the mother completely they merely reduced her time with the kid.

Could you imagine they guarantee visitation to a man who was caught abusing his children?

Ppc.

Satanfan · 2021-05-21T11:41:28+00:00

Parents who feel that a child is an extension of themselves are twats. Children are individuals and should be treated as such.

SONGUNDAM · 2021-05-21T13:41:34+00:00

This happened to me. Ex wife kept calling cps making up stuff. I couldn't see my son for months until court was over. My boy must be 10 or 11 now. I haven't seen or talked to him in 3 or 4 years. The court system failed me.

papercut2008uk · 2021-05-21T12:29:23+00:00

It's the kid(s) that are the real losers in these shitty situations, they either have 1 or 2 shitty parents that will use them against the other.

I'm currently dealing with a situation like this, where the mother thinks she can do no wrong because she is the mother, and that makes everything she does right.

clique34 · 2021-05-21T12:24:18+00:00

as happy as I am for a rare win in the men’s column, I can’t help but feel bad for the child. That’s how you know you impregnated the wrong woman, when her feelings take priority over a child’s needs. Avoid these narcissists at all costs. If you choose to have a child, it’s your responsibility to give them everything. That’s a selfish choice to have one and a child born into this world did not have any say on being born so why should the child suffer ?

chaoz2030 · 2021-05-21T12:51:18+00:00

I haven't seen my kid since the begining of the pandemic over a year ago. Wish the pussypass denial would come the Tennessee courts.

henrysmyagent · 2021-05-21T15:11:15+00:00

Did you read what I read?

The mother, over a 7 year period, carried out an unremitting campaign of interference in the father's court ordered visitation AND parental alienation.

So what was the penalty for defying repeated court orders, breaking the law, and harming her child?

She was "sentenced" to the exact same visitation and custody plan the father had before the change of custody.

In other words, the exact same custody scheme most father's get from courts is a fucking punishment when given to a mother!

Yes, it is a just outcome for the father to be awarded custody of his child, but it's just more of the same 'ol crap from a family court.

Only in the most extreme cases is a loving father given full custody of his child.

sicrm · 2021-05-21T10:51:58+00:00

should be the standard.

2021-05-21T12:50:58+00:00

I wonder how many men have been pushed to homicide by women who do this sort of crap. Not saying it's justified but people can do irrational things when their child is involved. The family court system needs to change.

sw3rv1n77 · 2021-05-22T07:34:30+00:00

My ex took me to court when she thought I was down and filed for sole custody. In my state if one parent files for sole custody then you can no longer come to a joint custody agreement.

She called me every name in the book like Disneyland dad and an absent parent. Meanwhile I said nothing bad about her and just told my story.

I think this was key in my success as she was obviously vengeful while I just wanted to raise my kids in a non toxic environment. The judge seen right through her bs. With no lawyer in a hoodie and jeans I won sole custody of my 2 girls on Nov 2017.

BryanOBrien · 2021-05-21T13:35:14+00:00

I’m going through this right now. Haven’t been able to talk to my daughter in two years.

DaddyLevesque · 2021-05-21T13:45:05+00:00

It's a 7 yo story btw but

"The anxious little girl had told a Court family consultant it was her dream to be able to 'love Mummy and Daddy at the same time'." Ffs, imagine purposefully doing that to your child.

Special_Tay · 2021-05-21T14:02:49+00:00

It's unfortunate that a lot of men's rights advocacy groups have been labeled as misogynists and white supremacists and to be fair, some of them are. But many of them exist for precisely this reason. Being a mother doesn't mean you're a good parent.

buntyisbest · 2021-05-21T13:24:22+00:00

Karma bitch!

GreatOneLiners · 2021-05-21T13:55:51+00:00

Can’t imagine how much hell he went through before this was even looked at.

Difrntthoughtpatrn · 2021-05-21T14:34:15+00:00

I knew this couldn't be in America. I couldn't get my daughter away from a felony drug addict that had nothing, lived with her mom and hasn't worked a job since my daughter was born, in 2001.

UnitysBlueTits · 2021-05-21T15:19:20+00:00

I hate how women use their kids as pawns. We're trying to win at least 50/50 custody for my boyfriend's child and his ex is just an absolute bitch and is wanting him to pay child support even though she said 50/50. When we told her that she would have to pay child support too, she refused to believe us even though we showed her the law. This is what stuck up bitches get. I wish we could get full custody like this, but living in Utah it probably won't happen.

LexusBrian400 · 2021-05-21T17:43:26+00:00

This is currently happening to me right now and I used to work for her parents business so I can't even fight they're loaded. I haven't seen my son in a year because she cheated on me and then I yelled at her so the court granted her a two year PFA.

woodshores · 2021-05-21T17:44:25+00:00

Divorcees who take the kid hostage to get back at the other one are terrible persons. If one or two adults made a mistake, the child(ren) should not be casualties. This should be punishable by law, regardless of the culprit’s sex.

HundoGuy · 2021-05-21T20:10:31+00:00

Should also make her pay back any child support given lol

Eezyville · 2021-05-21T15:52:41+00:00

The mom will kidnap her daughter. Guaranteed.

MydnightRose · 2021-05-21T16:07:55+00:00

All the stories in here need to be expanded collected and published in a book.

Dreddmartyr13 · 2021-05-21T17:10:59+00:00

If this could've happened to me 15 years ago, I'd not have spent a number of those years on antidepressants missing my boy.

latearrival42 · 2021-05-21T18:25:11+00:00

I'll have more of this please.

alpha_28 · 2021-05-21T19:58:57+00:00

Posts like these make me so angry. To have a loving father denied access to his child “just because”....

My ex is domestically violent.. hasn’t bothered seeing my sons in 3.5 years now. Says that “unsupervised visitation” is the only way he’s going to visit them. Over my dead body. You lost that privilege when you shook one of my children for crying when he was 2 months old... not to mention failing to lock the door so they got out into traffic 3 times on your watch, sitting on your phone/Xbox making them wait for food or interaction because a game/video was more important than they were. Oh and the suicide threats... the driving erratically saying he was going to crash the car and kill us all over an argument several times... the death threats..

I genuinely fear for my sons safety if ever left alone with my ex which is why I will fight. But if a man isn’t as mentally unstable, abusive and neglectful as my ex there’s no reason he shouldn’t be able to see his children.

Rex9 · 2021-05-21T20:19:34+00:00

Sad part is that we are celebrating this instead of it being normal for a father to have custody. It's so unusual that it gives us all a spark of hope.

wearywoman · 2021-05-21T21:00:04+00:00

I am so happy to read about this. About freaking time!!! People need to stop playing freaking games with kids. They have feelings and are not toys.

nosoupforyou · 2021-05-21T21:13:34+00:00

A woman like that proves she's not capable of raising a child.

ZumboPrime · 2021-05-22T00:04:14+00:00

This is a nice change, but I can't help but think: if the mother is this spiteful, what's to stop her from kidnapping the kid and fleeing the state during her visits?

dtrain85 · 2021-05-22T00:16:34+00:00

I'm so glad me and my ex both put my daughter first. I pay child support. I get my daughter every weekend and we have never once stepped into a courtroom or talked to a lawyer.

walkertxrg · 2021-05-22T02:17:49+00:00

Sad that this is a headline. Should happen every. Single. Time.

2021-05-22T06:50:42+00:00

This is Australia. For every one of the seemingly good decisions there are a million cucked ones in the family courts.

Same goes with the UK and Canada.

Oz70NYC · 2021-05-22T07:59:25+00:00

If only rulings like this were the norm and not the exception when deal with manipulative mothers.

droden · 2021-05-24T12:21:26+00:00

it took them 6 years of granting her that pass. what a crock of shit.

az226 · 2021-05-22T02:21:03+00:00

The article says she will still have 50% custody.

805falcon · 2021-05-22T02:33:23+00:00

they need to throw the cunt in jail

Hikingthrough28 · 2021-05-22T02:43:12+00:00

Mine kept me from mine for 6 months will a false child abuse claim.... still fighting her I. Court and will be for years criminally and custody.

Title	Mother Loses Custody After Preventing Father Seeing Child
Author	LawExpress
Upvotes	3898
Comments	131
Date	May 21, 2021 9:04 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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