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Jeremy Kyle slams audience for LAUGHING at male domestic violence victim who threw himself off a balcony

Ultramegasaurus

May 13, 2015
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Title Jeremy Kyle slams audience for LAUGHING at male domestic violence victim who threw himself off a balcony
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Ultramegasaurus

Upvotes 710
Comments 87
Date May 13, 2015 9:01 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/35t8lb/jeremy_kyle_slams_audience_for_laughing_at_male/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/jeremy-kyle-slams-audience-for-laughing-at-male.980426
https://theredarchive.com/post/980426
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Comments

[–]SCROTAL-SACK 78 points79 points80 points 11 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Vid doesnt load for me. Youtube link for anyone else having issues https://youtu.be/7PR5ryhnYtQ

[–]fastal_12147 17 points18 points19 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

"Comments disabled for this video"

too bad. I was hoping for some honest heart-to-heart discussion about domestic violence with my fellow YouTube users

[–]Gandalfthegrayt 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

YouTube comments are scary ignorant

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[–]Gandalfthegrayt -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Wat

[–]itsinthebone 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's a pretend YouTube comment

[–]Gandalfthegrayt -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thats what I thought at first haha sry

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not really. It's hit and miss like anywhere else on the internet [or in real life for that matter].

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thankyou.

[–]Tiiimmmbooo 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you.

[–]FreeBroccoli 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What language is that one guy speaking?

[–]Anathema_Redditus 70 points71 points72 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It sickens and saddens me that this man was laughed at over something serious like this. Fucking hypocrites, all of them.

[–]awwwwyehmutherfurk 10 points11 points12 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Brah you should have just held her down brah. You're a man brah what was she gonna do brah?

[–]Anathema_Redditus 29 points30 points31 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

BE A MAN BRAH DEFEND YOURSELF AGAINST HER.

defends against her

YOU FUCKING RAPIST ASSHOLE WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU HURT HER

[–]xooon 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Take all of it

[–]swegmcbutterpants 102 points103 points104 points 11 years ago (34 children) | Copy Link

Funny they were all laughing at the guy, and then clapped when Jeremy finished.

[–]InWadeTooDeep 155 points156 points157 points 11 years ago (26 children) | Copy Link

Mob mentality.

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[–]Rampant_baconator 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Or....the applause sign could have lit up when he finished.

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[–]therearedozensofus12 14 points15 points16 points 11 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

Not true, it's about 50/50.

[–]dicaparly 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

There's research that shows women are more likely to be the aggressor in non-reciprocal IPV. There is a link somewhere around this subreddit that links to that, but I don't have time right now to find it. It said something like 60% of non-reciprocal violence is committed by women - but it includes same-sex partner relationships as well, so the data may be slightly skewed.

[–]therearedozensofus12 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I know what study you're speaking about, and I do think it's skewed. The criticism it has gotten from professionals when it was peer-reviewed is that it doesn't differentiate between self-defense and reciprocal violence well, at all. So a lot of the women that are committing "reciprocal violence" are actually using self-defense against a more physically powerful partner. Not trying to absolve anyone of guilt here, just saying that it wasn't methodical enough for a lot of professionals in the field.

[–]MittenMagick 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

While I see the importance for differentiating between "I'm defending myself" vs "We both beat each other up because that's what we do", I think the original study is a great commentary on how much male DV goes unpunished socially. Whether or not it is legally unpunished is a different study to do.

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[–]therearedozensofus12 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

Yes. 36% of adult women vs. 21% of adult men report experiencing DV over their lifetimes. But when you factor in socio-cultural norms, experts pin it at roughly 50/50. Source: I teach classes on healthy relationships in high schools.

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[–]therearedozensofus12 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I am a woman. Out of curiosity (genuinely not trying to be antagonistic), what do you think of when you're talking about "feminist propaganda" in this respect? I ask because I take my job very seriously, and I strive to make my lessons as gender-neutral as possible. I am always looking for weak spots in my lessons, or places where my gender has made me a bit dense to the lived experiences of the other gender.

[–]ziekktx 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I just appreciate facts based teaching, even if those facts are unpleasant. Thanks for being the kind of person all children deserve.

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[–]secondaccountforme -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Not all women are feminists. And beyond that, not all feminists are blind to injustices that men face.

[–]reversememe 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No but find me feminist who actually does something about men's issues instead of just lip service.

[–]cosmicsans 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm sure a lot goes unreported in both directions.

[–]JustifiedAncient 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd agree and say probably most goes unreported. Perhaps even as far that it isn't reported until the injuries are hard to hide.

[–]secondaccountforme 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

That's bullshit. You can't blame women for "engineering" that place in society any more than you can blame men for "engineering a place in society where they can hold a place in the public eye without their appearance or body constantly being commented on".

That's just not how it's works. Women and men both have privileges, and they both have areas where society expects unreasonable things of them or treats them unfairly. They didn't try to make society like that. One gender can't control a society these days. It just doesn't work like that. It's just the way our society is, and changing it takes (1.) a lot of time and (2.) a lot of effort on both sides.

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[–]secondaccountforme -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So do men.

[+]themangodess -6 points-5 points-4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Mob mentality! No, the audience just laughs when they approve something (let's just pretend they didn't clap a few minutes after. Laughter IS their clap!)

I don't want a thread full of excuses. You can explain why people laugh in groups like this without excusing it as mob mentality. There's surely people in that audience who didn't laugh.

[–]elebrin 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah. What bugs me the most is it's clear how nervous he is even sharing this.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Nothing saying the people who clapped were the same who laughed. Sure there was some overlap, but that very last frame it looked like the husband was clapping and his wife was pissed because she'd just been shamed for her sexist, antiquated views on domestic violence.

[–]blewpah 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She was clapping too. And her expression was normal.

[–]AWright5 7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

sounds like reddit

[–]FredAsta1re 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Didn't sound like the whole crowd was laughing . . . Also, his speech might have opened the eyes of a few of the ones who laughed, and they may well applaud a point well made

[–]harryballsagna 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Give us hell, Quimby!"

[–]dicaparly -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It sounded like a group of women laughing, but in the clip of the applause, it was a good mix of people. So maybe the laughter was a select group of people?

[–][deleted] 46 points47 points48 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Its not surprising seeing as a lot of entertainment media portray mental instability and violence as just a funny quirk when it comes to female characters while also poking fun at the male victim for being too much of a "pussy" to defend himself.

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[–]secondaccountforme 9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women are biologically not as strong as men

This is on average. I'm an average guy, average height, maybe a little under average weight, but probably average strength, and there are tons of women who I would be terrified to get in a fight with. I don't know how to fight. I don't know how to defend myself against an attack. Just because I'm stronger than the average woman doesn't mean that I'm not going to get scared or freeze up if a woman attacks me.

You can't expect everyone to just act in the most rational way when it comes to being attacked.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah. On average women aren't as strong as men, and feminists use this as a way to justify not defending oneself against women. When a celebrity (I forgot who) was smacked by his girlfriend he hit back. She was compared to a chihuahua and he a pitbull. But that's wrong. On average women are about 60% as strong as men. So it's more like a doberman fighting a pit.

[–]TheCrimsonKing92 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You appear to have watched The Justicar's response to Zaunstar on Ray Rice!

[–]harryballsagna 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best".

[–]PainfullyNumb 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If their best is hitting me knowing I will be penalized for defending myself and their worst is stabbing or shooting me in my sleep because they can just say I was abusive, I don't want to deserve them at all.

[–]Dirty_Liberal_Hippie 23 points24 points25 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Good thing we have that "male privilege" though, right?

/s

Honestly, society is broken as fuck when people find the abuse of ANYONE to be funny.

The fact that it has to be pointed out that, no, it's not funny and that they wouldn't be laughing if we were talking about a woman.

Just, what the fuck, society?

How did we get to this point? Is this ANYONES idea of equality? One side is treated like a joke and the second they say something it's " Oh, male privilege. Women are totally still oppressed." etc. Such mixed up bullshit.

" I know no one takes you seriously as a victim of abuse because you have a penis...But you totally have no right to complain. Men aren't oppressed at all." Ha, now THERE is a laugh.

I am nearly 28 years old. When the fuck does this "male privilege" kick in? And why is being laughed at for being a victim of abuse a "privilege"?

[–]Cypher_Aod 38 points39 points40 points 11 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Wow. You know that society's fucked up when Jeremy Kyle is the damned voice of reason.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Jeremy Kyle himself is actually an intelligent, decent guy with good opinions. The trash on his show are just chavs. In many ways he does a good service by exposing the kind of utterly broken, morally bankrupt society we live in. He has stated that it all begins with the breakdown of the family unit.

He clearly detests the people on his show with a passion.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

He clearly detests the people on his show with a passion.

So he hosts the show because he wants to help them?

Also, is he like British Jerry Springer?

[–]Cypher_Aod -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So he hosts the show because he wants to help them?

Or make scads of money, both are good.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That is the most warped review of Jeremy Kyle I've ever heard. He's a middle-class scumbag that incites hatred against the working poor. He brings in poor people to tell ridiculous stories (fake), and actively encourages his audience to laugh at them.

What is wrong with you?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nothing wrong with me whatsoever. I am also a middle class (not scumbag) who detests chavs and chav culture. I have no doubt the stories his guests have are true; and laughed at they should be. Although personally I would rather cry.

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[–]Cypher_Aod 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Jeremy Kyle and his show have a fairly low reputation here in the UK as trashy daytime TV, like Jenny Jones or something like that.

I've never met the man or seen him "off air" so I don't know what he's actually like.

[–]PerfectHair 28 points29 points30 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

As much as I dislike the Jeremy Kyle show for it's various bear-baiting antics, I respect him greatly for doing this.

[–]Wargame4life 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

i dont, the fact he still pussyfooted around the audience "i dont want to upset the audience" pisses me off, if i had a show i would immediately go "right you who laughed explain how this is funny....?" then shame the audience and tell them in no uncertain terms they should be ashamed of themselves.

because they should!

[–]PerfectHair 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Baby steps.

[–]BoboBandit 11 points12 points13 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So much respect to this guy. He makes such a good point, if it was a women everyone would be losing their shit but noooo since it's a man it's hilarious. Got to love equality.

[–]bathmlaster 9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

He's scolding the audience about their behaviour and feels compelled to apologize while doing so, saying "I don’t want to upset anyone in the audience but"... what kind of world do we live in that he has to apologize for calling out people on bad behaviour?

[–]Wargame4life 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

couldn't agree more, also how sad that him calling them out is so rare it's "newsworthy"

[–]TheCitizenAct 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Are you British? If not, I'd suggest you're lost in translation.

'Sorry' is the most overused word in the English language in the UK. People apologise for EVERYTHING. It's common vernacular and part of the whole British excessive politeness thing.

[–]bathmlaster 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Native English speaking Canadian here. We say sorry quite often (as per the stereotype) but I can't imagine I'd apologize to someone before I call them out on something. However I'll never be on a talk show so that's a completely different situation as well.

I personally can't imagine that I'd say "I'm sorry but can you please not laugh about this male abuse case"?

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[–]SCROTAL-SACK 7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Same for me. Here's the youtube link https://youtu.be/7PR5ryhnYtQ

[–]PerfectHair 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's an archive, that's why the video doesn't load.

[–]save_the_rocks 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This morning on the radio the DL Hugley show was still laughing about Tiger Woods' domestic violence episode and making jokes irons.

[–]GreasedLightning 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This image said it all for me. This is why men leave and start a new life. If you don't they'll drive you to insanity.

[–]CaptainRandus 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

link to full episode? i'd like to see how this plays out

[–]AtomicBLB 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wish I could upvote this a thousand times, but just the one will do I suppose.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Quite the dirtbags right there

[–]jaheiner 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good on the host for calling it out like that.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

the man is an idiot for shaking hands and trying to work it out

this is why so many people get abused because they keep giving their partners second chances

[–]Omnipraetor 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because they have the mindset that nothing better might come in the future, that she is the best they deserve. I so sad. I personally believe that a lot of men could do so much better but they settle for less. At best in these types of relationships, the woman will only ridicule and shame the man behind his back, at worst she will kill him.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Things get more complicated when kids are involved.

[–][deleted] -5 points-4 points-3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

excuses are like assholes; everyone has one

how is putting yourself in harm's way and raising your child in an abusive environment good for the child?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not saying go live with her or anything, but it's much harder to turn and run the other direction when you have kids with crazy. (Which is why Rule 1 is don't stick your dick in crazy.)

[–]Holygamer99 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That picture of the chick...the look on her face and in her eyes sends a chill down my spine

[–]krusty-krab-pizza 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Look at that smug bitch. God people make me sick.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've probably seen more than my fair share of Jeremy Kyle's show over time (it's not something I'm proud of!) but one thing I do respect him for is his willingness to actually stand up for male guests when the situation calls for it. He's always made a point of saying "it's funny that if the roles were the other way around and it was the man behaving this way you'd all be disgusted."

[–]Not_An_Ambulance 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just want to point out that one of the reason people laugh is because they're uncomfortable...

Doesn't make laughing acceptable in this situation, but... it doesn't mean they thought it was actually funny, not all of them anyway.

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