I am currently going through the divorce process with my wife which was initiated by her. Originally I was struggling incredibly and grieving for an entire month until I met with several of my support systems and they made me realize how bad our relationship was. It was incredibly toxic from both sides and I know that in the end we are better off as friends. The moment I had that realization my wife was thrilled and glad that we are now on the same page. However, after this realization I noticed that she has been going out dramatically more than before and staying late with her friends (guys). Infidelity is not a concern from my end but I am concerned that she is using alcohol as a method of coping/dealing with this. She is still my best friend and I worry about her getting home late. Should I say something to her? I know if i directly said that she might be using alcohol to cope she would throw a fit and argue with me. Even if she is going out to meet new people, I don't care anymore, I just hope shes not doing this to find temporary companionship and end up getting hurt in the end.