I initiated the divorce. Over a year ago my wife let her 25 year old son move into the basement. The understanding was that he work for 3 or 4 months and save to get himself another place. Year and a half later he is still here. No money saved and works part time to but Pokémon card and cigarettes. Worse still over my objections he moved his girlfriend in about three months ago. She's the same way except she has a daughter she dumped on her mother to move in my house. Well like I said I'm done. I feel disrespected over this whole situation. Am I being unreasonable ?