I have been separated a little over 3 months and divorce was finished like a week ago. We were married for 18 years and im pretty sure she is heading to Hawaii with some dude.

She sent me a message that she was going on a "business trip" and the kid's will be staying between me and her mom. Totally bullshit. Her work doesn't send her on business trips. My daughter said to her friend tonight "my mommy is going to Hawaii." I didn't ask any questions.

I know i probably shouldn't be so upset but it just confirms what I already knew that she was talking to some dude when she wanted the divorce. She had to gaslight me and make everything my fault.

She also is telling everyone that im a stalker because I caught her talking about divorcing me on my living room ring camera. Thank God as she had less time to plan and gather evidence.

She was being very suspicious and never parted with her phone for months. It was always under a pillow with her leg over it and on "do not disturb." When I brought it up I was "crazy".

Its just insane how people can flip on you after decades of support. I will never trust again.