Cheating playbook

Spiritual_Cover5285 · 2024-03-03T00:18:10+00:00

UpdateMe!

osikalk · 2024-02-02T16:13:36+00:00

Man, I sympathize with you, but I want to warn you not to succumb to provocation and lies that are covered with the magic word "rape". It's amazing how should someone just say "I was raped" without any evidence and then logic and reason are completely discarded by everyone.

Your wife is not a teenager or a child. Entering into a certain relationship with this couple, she knew what she was doing and what it threatened. She deliberately put herself in a position that could only end in one thing - sex. Didn't she know she was taking drugs?? Complete nonsense! She couldn't help but know that it would all end in sex. And she accepted it!
If it was rape, then any normal person would have to go to the police and provide evidence. She didn't do it. Why? Because no one forced her to have sex and she is now desperately trying to justify herself.
Is there any evidence that she resisted, screamed, scratched?? No! And I'm sure this couple will claim that your wife started having sex with them and taking drugs voluntarily. Why do you trust your "wife" and not them? After all, it was your wife who lied to you for many years and was going to lie further.
Does she not understand what unprotected sex leads to?? Is she a naive child? Any responsible woman would understand after the "rape" that there is a chance that the child is not yours and therefore she need to have an abortion. But she didn't do it either because of her stupidity or she just didn't care, she didn't care whose child it was, she didn't care how you felt about it.

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Man, she's lying to you and gaslighting. She is an irresponsible depraved woman who is ready to hurt her own husband in the name of her selfish desires to experience a new kind of sex behind his back. And you're going to buy into this pathetic "rape" story and take her back? Don't you have any common sense, pride and self-esteem left? And you're going to raise the child of a strange man who knows about it and definitely wants to play the role of a father, and his perverted wife will play something like a second mother? And then this couple will persuade your wife to have a threesome again without any doubt. And your wife will not get pregnant again from this man? And will you forgive her again?

Imagine the logistics of your "marriage" and the coparenting of your "daughter" by your "wife" and this couple if you stay. It will be an extreme situation when almost every day "rapist" and your "wife" will meet and discuss the upbringing of their "daughter" in a friendly way, and you will be a complete stranger in their informal family. Don't you feel sick just thinking about this situation?

And your "daughter" will definitely be attached to her real father more than to you. Who do you think will walk her down the aisle? Definitely not you! Thousands of heartbreaking stories have been written about such cases on the Internet! Don't become a hero is another story of betrayal and deception. Please ...

GoonerSoccer · 2024-01-16T00:09:21+00:00

Have you seen that your wife has posted her side of the story?

I think the very fact that she decided she was never going to tell you the truth alone is a reason not to reconcile, but also to be the best wife she could be not because she loved you but because she was trying to make up for her affair and the fact that the child is not yours. Your whole marriage was a lie.

Ok_Coyote9326 · 2024-01-09T03:50:20+00:00

Updateme

Fishing1980 · 2024-01-07T02:15:46+00:00

Maybe it’s time for a clean break. Divorce your wife and walk away from the young girl that isn’t your biological daughter and distance yourself from your judgement family. Move to a different state and start over. You are young and can do it.

infinite-ignorance · 2024-01-01T22:17:44+00:00

Your lawyer may be able to confirm, but it seems like you can sue for back child support.

LeaveAlternative7167 · 2024-01-01T14:19:52+00:00

Go the mediation route if you can. Will save a ton of money and time. I am doing it now at start to finish will be 3 months and 5-10k in total for both of us. I have heard horror stories of people lawyering up, spending over 50k (each) and it taking a year or two.

kingofkitsap · 2024-01-01T09:06:05+00:00

An open marriage is not the answer. Introducing additional complicating variables (other intimate partners and their emotions) is not going to simplify or clarify your life.

Kwen_Oellogg · 2024-01-01T08:37:01+00:00

Stay strong brother. You deserve the best, and she ain't it.

pk2at · 2023-12-31T23:57:35+00:00

Best to file quickly and get her signatures on a favorable financial settlement for you. Very soon her guilt will turn to anger

Interesting_Stress28 · 2023-12-31T23:25:33+00:00

What were the questions and counter points you used?

Title	Cheating playbook
Author	Terrible-Link2836
Upvotes	41
Comments	54
Date	December 31, 2023 9:15 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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