I told my wife yesterday. I've had a couple lawyer consultations already. I have a decent understanding of the process now. What sorts of questions do I need to ask in future consultations or work with a lawyer? Anyone worked with an LLP (in CO) and recommend it?

Adding details: She cheated multiple times, but we're in a no-fault state.

We have 3 kids (11/14/16). We both work fulltime and each make 6 figures. I make a little more at about 55/45. We have about the same in our retirement accounts. We own a house with a decent amount of equity, and there are 3 cars. Only 1 car has a loan. No other debt.

I honestly don't want to stay in the house. I just want out with as few ties as possible. I'd like everything, including parenting split 50/50. I'd rather pay more up front than make payments to her for years.