Signed on the dotted line today and now my divorce is finalized.

Other than the brutal heart break had a clean split, no money exchanging hands, no kids. My struggles were immigration related as I'm in her country but I handled that am ok to stay an continue my career despite her efforts to make me leave the country.

So now, After a 7 year relationship I am free again at 34.

This sub was very helpful for me during this process. Thank you all.

Side note: divorce has been a huge growing experience and I want to continue to develop after the divorce. Can anyone recommend other good self development communities that aren't strictly related to divorce?