I wandered into the sub r/askwomen_40.. Women are their own worst enemy. They advice they give each.. unbelievable!! I suspect they can't bear to see someone happy.

One posted how she met a guy, was not really attracted to him, but he is nice, makes her laugh, does dishes, provides.. has two kids with him but now does not like the goofy things he does that used to make her laugh in the past. Get this, she spoke to him and he is making effort to change.

All the responses.. leave him and move on.

Another; She met this amazing guy (her words) they had amazing sex for 6 months, but now her sex level has dropped to zero. He (the bf) feels rejected when she turns him done..

The responses, the guy is an @#$& dump him..

Why did i venture into that subreddit. I think I'm traumatized and will need therapy.