Home title and mortgage in my name. - told doesn’t matter that the property is commingled so she gets half. - I can’t afford to pay her the 100,000 equity/appreciation value and still keep the home. Told it doesn’t matter. - Can’t afford a home in the same school district for the kids that I’m currently in if I’m forced to sell. Told it doesn’t matter. - child support alone would cripple my ability to maintain the home I have if I were entitled to keep it. Told it doesn’t matter.

I’m lost. She’s looking at a 100k windfall just for leaving me and that’s not including whatever child support is required, it’s no wonder she didn’t want to go to counseling. Does the court honestly not care what happens to the dad if the divorce financially destroys him?