Hi all, without going to far into my situation, wife and I have only been married for 2ish years but it's been hell. She's attempted suicide once, threatened me with divorce numerous times, all the name calling, tried to separate me from friends and family, controlling, physical with me...

I can't stand it anymore and I need out. How do you prepare and protect yourselves?

We have 2 cars with loans, a house, no kids and some joint credit cards, mostly with no balances. I tend to take care of like ALL the finances so I don't think she'd notice if I removed her from joint credit cards. I've got electronic copies of all important financial documents going back 5 years and balances of accounts from when we lived together but weren't married.