Had some civil words yesterday with the other half where she was bringing up stuff from decades ago. I bit my tongue. Anyway she’s going for it. Wants a divorce, nothing left to give no less. The anger is palpable. I’ve broken her and the marriage. All me no less.

She’s had enough of realising I never cared about her, despite gifts, paying for absolutely everything and telling her I loved her weekly and giving her compliments.

She hasn’t whatsoever considered any of the negative aspects of working through a divorce. Fuelled by conversations with her sisters and parents where the rake over the coals and agree on what a “knight in shining armour really looks like”

We have a McMansion that she loves, with a massive mortgage I might add, she won’t be able to afford on her own under any circumstances.

I informed her calmly that the house would have to be sold, to pay for 2 properties. There no way I’ll be staying in a dog box and not have the children visit. Shes now accused me of abuse and trying to scare her. Jeez, 🤷‍♂️

The abuse never ends.