Just got back from having a great talk with the wife.we cleared the air and talk it out and we're going to try to make it work.17 year's is a long time just to give up on. We both agreed that we need to work on Communication and not bottle every thing up, or let it out all at once.we just have to work on the things that we took for granted. We were in a rut and basically just Ignoring one other. A long road ahead of us but we are willing to work on the relationship