Rings

dragonfly323 · 2022-11-27T23:57:22+00:00

My lawyer told me we each to keep our rings. Today my ex (been divorced for 2 weeks) texted asking for her rings back but I don’t have them. I told her to look in the places she usually put them when she was having her affairs.

azwildcat74 · 2022-11-27T22:39:11+00:00

Mine pawned hers. I think radical indifference on all of this type of shit sends the best kind of message.

Adorable_FecalSpray · 2022-11-28T01:22:54+00:00

Mine threw her’s at me in dramatic fashion. I picked it up later and put it on the counter back out of the way. I wish I had put it in my gun safe so I could have pawned / sold it. She ended up coming back a couple days later to the house and taking it along with a whole bunch of other stuff (of which a lot which was NOT her’s) while I was at work.

It is “funny” as a few of my kids have brought me back things from her place that were actually mine. They either just gave them to me without saying anything or they say something like, “Mom took this when she left, it wasn’t her’s so I brought it back for you.” Makes me a bit sad they have to deal with it but I also appreciate them looking out for me.

JuneCleaversMudFlaps · 2022-11-27T23:27:23+00:00

Nah just let her have it. I tossed mine out the window at some point. Don’t care. You gave it to her, so it’s hers to do what she wants with

That-Lunch6059 · 2022-11-28T00:03:13+00:00

Would have to check state laws. I know in my state the engagement ring is considered a gift and therefore hers to keep.

CEOThrowAway1 · 2022-11-28T02:41:21+00:00

Mine left her rings and all Jewlery I had gifted her. Over $50k worth…..

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2022-11-28T03:12:27+00:00

Ring: $$$$

Having that bitch out of your life: Priceless

There’s some things money can’t buy.

ragingredditir · 2022-11-28T01:10:32+00:00

Not a battle worth having. Her engagement ring appraised for 8,000 but I think she only got 1,700 when she finally sold it on one of those jewelry websites. The money you spent is gone

hidyhowareya · 2022-11-28T04:01:13+00:00

I took hers the day I moved out after she said she wanted a divorce. She didn’t even know about 3 months later, asked for it back and I said FUCK OFF, this was meant for my wife to have, I paid for them and you aren’t my wife anymore. The rings now belongs to our daughter if she wants to use them so long as if they aren’t cursed, haha. I know, bad joke but it is what it is.

captainchippsixx · 2022-11-27T23:53:20+00:00

She won’t give them to you, so don’t ask. You probably can only get 20-30% of the money back selling it. If they are Soweto more than your rings , you can use it to get other things negotiating. Because she will nickel and dime everything.

upvotersfortruth · 2022-11-28T02:34:05+00:00

Fuck it. Don't be petty. Also, the case law of most states is against you.

Small_Quarter_3673 · 2022-11-28T00:22:55+00:00

Ask her and go sell them after and get some money back

IcyEntertainment8673 · 2022-11-28T00:31:43+00:00

Unless your state says otherwise, the rings are hers. Do what you want with yours.

Basic_Advance7627 · 2022-11-28T04:11:13+00:00

Gave her mine and hers. Why would I want them? She gave me all our family photos over the 27 years marriage just to hurt me more. She was a manipulative, lying cheater.

Alright_So · 2022-11-28T13:12:03+00:00

Might be a spark-point for a fight.

I chose not to ask for that reason.

The money would have been significant to me but wasn’t worth the drama

Xan-Diesel · 2022-11-28T15:20:59+00:00

I threw mine away and have no idea what she did with hers. I realize they're only worth a fraction of what we paid for them so I guess I don't really care.

Ftwbigcat · 2022-11-28T23:07:13+00:00

I wanted her to keep hers. She said she would give them to my daughter one day. I gave them to her, she can do what she likes with them. But we aren’t fighting about anything and ending on good terms.

Prestigious-Ad978 · 2022-11-29T07:00:35+00:00

Mine kept complaining she was broke after I financially cut her off once she decided she wasn’t going to even co-parent. So I asked her what she did with her engagement ring that’s worth almost $8,000. Come to find out, she sold it at a pawn shops for around $800. After that, I really can’t feel sorry for a broke cheater who doesn’t even care to take the time and properly sell a valuable piece of Jewelry.

Ornery-Effect-8852 · 2022-11-30T03:00:27+00:00

My ex doesn’t know it but I bought her ring second hand on the Jarod’s website for about $500. She thinks it’s worth a fortune. She couldn’t pawn now for half that.

Title	Rings
Author	midnightSabre
Upvotes	3
Comments	24
Date	November 27, 2022 10:32 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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