My wife has subtly hinted (not direct words) that she will falsely accuse me of something if I exit the marriage and disrupt status quo for her. She doesn’t care if I leave but if I fight her for half the house and kids then she will permanently damage my reputation. This marriage is irreparable and we both just have an agreement for me to treat her nice, her to treat me however she feels and both to raise the kids. I dream of peace and quality time with my kids not dictated by her mood. If I file for divorce I am literally scared of what she’ll do so I continue to live in purgatory. As a guy, you are guilty as soon as someone accuses you of something and that’s it. Doesn’t matter that it isn’t real or true. Is there a recommended path/lawyer that could help me in this situation.