This hit home

sicrm · 2022-07-04T14:10:31+00:00

of course it got removed in two subs.

eyesayhello · 2022-07-04T13:59:53+00:00

Please post this over at r/AgainstMatrimony

playerknowmore · 2022-07-04T15:50:19+00:00

This started because I wouldn't mind the lawn and do shit like that. I pay people to do that. Once she told me her friends husband did shit for her. My brain can't be compared to other men. I asked if she wanted me to hire him? I think this is where I began to check out. It's been three years and I re-engage since, but you will never see me as one of those my love left my life is over. That is not reality.

oneknocka · 2022-07-05T02:51:45+00:00

Video is on point but it isnt complete. Leave out the part where she settles. And he starts to embrace his alone time, enjoys the spartan lifestyle that less resources has led him to. He no longer gives her the power over his life she once had and he realizes the autonomy he does have. He uses his alone time to create a better version of himself. He is happier, people notice. He stands strong in the face of a crisis because he has weathered the storm. People like being around him because the believe they have found a rare gem, a Diamond in the rough. Another she notices. He’s been here before and knows the pitfalls to avoid, the red flags to not ignore. Life goes on and he is happy.

playerknowmore · 2022-07-04T15:29:11+00:00

This best fits in the Divorce subreddit. The way women talk casually about divorce like it's as easy as a trip to the hair salon. We feel the same shit they do but we made a promise.

Personally, I am not against marriage. I am against any relationship that you put anyone above you. You don't have to love someone enough to let them go; you have to love yourself enough to know your life will be amazing as long as you are in it.

I remember when my wife wanted to talk about separation. I told her I don't believe in separation, but I will give her a divorce. Got the papers drawn so fast it scared the shit out of her. My brain is trained to always choose me; everyone else is expendable.I think she thought that I loved her more than anyone. I love her more than anyone but me

She did a one eighty, and we stayed together. The power dynamics in our relationship shifted. I sometimes have to catch myself to not be an asshole.

Physical-Pie748 · 2022-07-04T18:51:14+00:00

im wondering why the moderators removed this.........

CRobinsFly · 2022-07-04T14:57:03+00:00

Tooooo accurate.

iwantagoddamnliterof · 2022-07-04T17:11:36+00:00

I tried to crosspost this here last night without success. So accurate

euphramjsimpson · 2022-07-04T15:13:28+00:00

xadmin1 · 2022-07-04T19:47:42+00:00

Wow, that hit home despite I am not married

georeddit2018 · 2022-07-04T20:15:52+00:00

It's pretty funny. And of course, they calling everyone who support the video incel.

Title	This hit home
Author	pussypounder1988_2
Upvotes	22
Comments	22
Date	July 4, 2022 1:55 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/vr7z83/this_hit_home/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/Divorce_Men/this-hit-home.1121462 https://theredarchive.com/post/1121462

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