My soon to be X wife forgot everything good we had after 10 years of marriage (plus 4 dating). Light switch is THE term to define how she started acting. I’m in no fault of that divorce except for being angry every couple of months for something racist/stupid she said or did.

Anyway, I saw it coming and had prepared my finances in a way to protect my business and some of my savings. That pissed her and her parents off greatly. She filed a very dirty divorce and before leaving the house called the cops on me (first time ever). Overall it’s been a very dirty ending , with threats of Fraud and IRS and immigration fraud and all kind of shit.

Yet, despite it all, and everything she told everyone about me and me knowing 100% she is not coming back to her senses, she still has me on her Facebook profile picture. She’s active on Facebook (so she didn’t just forgot it), and I directly asked her two times to remove her profile picture because it’s confusing my friends and family but she hasn’t yet. At one time she said “no, not yet” with a look in her eyes as if she has a plan for that too (she’s been planning the divorce for 3-4 months I think)

Has anyone been through a situation like this ? Is that a way she would argue in court that she had intentions to come back ? Or is she only messing with my mind ?