Why is this so current. Why are people so cold towards people that are like me. We’re not allowed to discuss any issues or concerns we have or ask for help when it comes to getting women or we get told to forget about it. We get told that it’s our fault and that we are easily replaceable…the notion is either you work hard over time to get to the “basic standards” or you shut up and let older men have their way with the women your age.

I don’t see why every time me or some other dude brings this up we’re met with hostility/ shaming/ gaslighting. Why can’t we feel bad about being unattractive. Why can’t we feel bad knowing that society sees us as less than because women think we’re creepy. Why does it always have to be improve or shut up.