Brainwashed by the RP and have a question.

LillyPeu2 · 2022-10-19T17:24:35+00:00

If you keep seeing things you don't like (or don't want to like) in the places you keep looking, then stop looking in those places.

But to answer your question, understand that social media, especially places like tiktok, elevates the outlandish and attention-seeking behaviors. Normalcy doesn't get amplified, because it's not interesting or shocking.

Don't mistake common-on-tiktok behavior as common or representative for all (whatever subset or group). The plural of 'anecdote' is not 'data'.

spiraldinosaur · 2022-10-19T18:32:14+00:00

TikTok is not a representation of reality. It's a selection of the content that draws the most attention. Unsurprisingly, women wearing not very much is a very popular form of content.

Secondly, the fact that a woman might express herself visually and enjoy her own physical appearance and sexuality does not make her a "hoe". Just because a woman posts bikini photos, or does some sexy dancing, or even has her own OnlyFans, doesn't mean that she's out having sex with everyone all the time.

Thirdly, even if there are some women out there having sex with just about anyone - and there are - that doesn't mean that every woman is out there doing it. Look around you at all the people in happy, committed relationships. Do you honestly think every one of those women are cheating? Do you think men are not also capable of cheating and being "hoes"?

Throughout my life I've had committed relationships with about 9 women. And I can tell you with absolute certainty that not a single one of them cheated on me. Because cheating is actually much rarer than you might be told it is.

Women are people. They have their own desires and interests and feelings just like men do. We're no different from each other, and there's just as much variation between people. Some women cheat. Some women would never dream of it. Some men cheat, and some would never dream of it. Some want to enjoy being single and sexy and go out and have casual sex with lots of people, some want to just be in a loving and committed relationship. Some will want one at one point of their life and then change their mind later. There's a million variables in between of how people live their lives.

No. Not all women are hoes and unloyal. Neither are all men. We're all just people living our lives.

Meat_Vegetable · 2022-10-19T17:45:53+00:00

Tiktok Unironically rots your brain, if you interact with their content at all the app will keep giving it to you. This keeps reinforcing those thoughts to you, which then makes you more susceptible to the RP, A lot of those Apps are purposely designed to create addictive habits. Think of how often you pick up your phone and open the app when you have nothing else to do.

domitori3 · 2022-10-19T18:15:54+00:00

My question is, if I constantly see sexual things on tiktok

Remove tiktok then. Honestly, have you heard the term 'echo chambers'? Social media algorithms work just like that. They would throw an endless stream of similar content onto you because you are watching it. And they care about your watch time.

ishitinthemilk · 2022-10-19T17:42:34+00:00

Do you think men act like hoes too?

2022-10-19T19:35:20+00:00

the idea that all women were hoes and unloyal

So what do you have an issue with, promiscuity, lack of compromise, or infidelity?

if I constantly see sexual things on tiktok and people claim women arent hoes then why does a lot of girls act like that?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Base\_rate\_fallacy

petyrlannister · 2022-10-19T19:59:32+00:00

What you have to understand is that TikTok is a algorithm. It curates based on your preferences. So if you’re looking at the type of women who want to promote their OF, that’s what you’re going to see of more. Even then, those women aren’t necessarily hoes. Some of them are in lowkey longer term committed relationships and probably wouldn’t cheat, they just want to monetize your attention.

someguy2544 · 2022-10-19T20:56:39+00:00

1) the internet does not represent real life

2) of all the social media tiktok is probably the worst place to look for a accurate representation of real life

SweelFor- · 2022-10-19T17:22:13+00:00

Act like what?

RedPillDetox · 2022-10-19T20:44:04+00:00

People in tik tok acting like hoes get visibility precisely because they act like hoes. And since they get visibility for acting that way they get a disproportional amount of views which gives the impression that most women are hoes because those are the videos that circulate around the most, but it's truly just a minority... mostly doing it for the views rather than being hoes irl

Naus1987 · 2022-10-19T18:41:03+00:00

The answer is easy, most people are dumb!

If you want to be a smart person and not a dumb person, then it helps that you can recognize nuance and context.

Obviously not everyone is dumb. Just because most people are dumb doesn’t mean everyone is dumb.

Just don’t be a dumb person! Hang with smart people. It doesn’t matter if (most) people are dumb, because there are plenty of smart people. Just be smart too, and you can find them.

I was bored and worded this funny for the lolz. But the general point is the same. Associate with people you want to be with. And distance yourself for one’s you don’t want to be with. It’s simple! The hard part is being smart enough to actually do it.

the-aids-bregade · 2022-10-19T20:53:59+00:00

I believe it's called an algorithm it shows you things you interact with

I have that same feeling about being short

xvszero · 2022-10-19T23:07:24+00:00

There are nearly 8 billion people in this world. "A lot" of people do literally anything you can think of. Especially if you go out looking for it. I sure don't "constantly" see this stuff on tiktok because I'm not following around random women on tiktok.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2022-10-20T03:40:44+00:00

Some women are hoes and some aren't. Same goes for men.

BaadKitteh · 2022-10-19T22:31:23+00:00

Owning your sexuality in any way you choose doesn't make you a "ho" regardless of gender, and frankly there's nothing wrong with adults who freely choose consensual sex work with other adults either (since ho is just "whore" in AAVE). I worded it that way very specifically to circumvent all the "but underage/exploitation" arguments people try to use to shame or prosecute adults who choose to sell sexual services to other adults, which is something that should never have been illegal to begin with.

The hatred comes from insecurity (mostly other women afraid their partner might buy those services) and jealousy (people who can't sell themselves because no one's buying) on top of the old tired moral arguments brought forth by religion. Entertaining any of that is weakness.

NoelleSan191 · 2022-10-20T05:58:20+00:00

They’re attention whores. Not every girl is on tik tok and not every girl is trying to get attention Try looking elsewhere than tik tok!

Academic_Type624 · 2022-10-19T20:07:47+00:00

Men and women generally cheat for different reasons. Yes there are some women who thrive off attention from men and cheat for the thrill but the majority of women who cheat in long term relationships are generally doing so because their emotionally needs aren't met.

I'll hold my hands up and say I cheated after 15year relationship. It was a shit thing to do and i ended the relationship the same day. The reason I cheated was because I'd been telling my ex for a long time I didn't feel appreciated (he'd rather watched twitch streams than spend time with me on a romantic break for example) I was ignored and my needs were never considered. I actually said I'm thinking of walking about a month before this happened and he shrugged, still don't know why I didn't walk out the door. Then I met a guy who was listening to me and who did make me feel wanted and I realised what was missing from my life.

The point being that for the majority of relationships, with good partners if you both put the work in to build and keep a relationship then cheating on either side is a lot less likely.

I'm now in a relationship with a great guy we've been going strong 4.5 years and I wouldn't dream of cheating as it wouldn't be worth losing this.

2020mademejoinreddit · 2022-10-20T10:48:36+00:00

Tik tok is the worst place for reference on ANYTHING.

In fact, most social media is. Including reddit. Believe it or not, if people acted in real life like they do on reddit, they'd get their asses kicked or killed.

Also, your idea of RP was very corrupted. Maybe you should've done your research and you'd have known that the original RP never ever said women were hoes or disloyal or any such thing and in fact it pointed out that we're all in it together and we should work together against our true enemy, not each other, but the ones who try to divide and rule us.

Xx_SwordWords_xX · 2022-10-19T21:18:27+00:00

Those "hoes" are mainly children or young adults who are groomed by this society to do so.

TraditionUnable9770 · 2022-10-21T21:07:07+00:00

There could be an element of truth to do this, hwo come so many men experience relationships with women and then a women can leave like they meant nothing and switch off their feelings in 1 day? its a scary red pill to accept.

lalelu2727 · 2022-10-27T21:40:16+00:00

Confirmation bias it is my dear

Title	Brainwashed by the RP and have a question.
Author	EdgenuityUniversity
Upvotes	4
Comments	34
Date	October 19, 2022 5:15 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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