Been dating a guy for a year and half and he seems to be not just sliding further and further right but also getting more red pilled. We both make good money and have mutual interests but it’s getting harder and harder to enjoy spending time with him. He will start up on rants about how no one protects men and how women get away with everything including rape all the time. He’ll blurt out these obviously ridiculously inaccurate statistics that are so easy to debunk it feels like a joke.

He started nitpicking my body, saying I should change things, saying he’s the more attractive one in the relationship; to which I ignore or laugh at. He called me self centered the other day, and while on a date he stated that dating women is a burden for men. I told him he could always opt out and he shut down and said I wouldn’t understand because I’m not a man and I’ll just misinterpret what he says, which is a cop out. How is a woman supposed to feel when told, on a date, that dating women is a burden, by the person they’re dating??

He’s defensive all the time, over everything. He lashes out when I ask clarifying questions and says I’m attacking him. He very much seems to resent the fact that he’s dating me, at the same time is still very attached and can be very affectionate and sweet. It can be a rollercoaster. My concern for his mental health is growing and I am growing wary, I’m losing my interest in being intimate with him at all. If he doesn’t like me or want to date me anymore why hasn’t he just broken up with me? Why would he jeopardize a relationship by being outwardly misogynistic towards me? It’s like a red pill self fulfilling prophecy; women don’t want to date men that openly despise them and refuse to communicate. So women leave the relationship and these men then use that as “proof” that women are evil and duplicitous. It feels like when little kids are trying to lie but they’re just telling on themselves with chocolate all over their faces. Total lack of self awareness, what do I do with this guy?