Do you believe that there is someone for everyone?

Xx_SwordWords_xX · 2023-04-20T02:51:43+00:00

Even if you don't have an exceptional personality, you can meet someone equally as unexceptional.

I think if you remain with a mindset of "I attract what I am", then you'll find what you deserve.

If you aren't willing to accept what you attract (or don't), then you should probably get comfortable with yourself as being alone, or be willing to change.

curiousAbyssiniancat · 2023-04-20T14:30:25+00:00

Even anti-social people have better luck in relationships compared to me :p

I believe that everyone that is decent deserves to find love. Unfortunately it's not the case for everyone. Sometimes the worst people get into relationships and decent people are single. Look at Ted Bundy, Carla Holmoka, etc

So technically you can find SOMEONE but not all people are good. It's honestly not bad being single when you think of the potential AWFUL people that exist that could potentially ruin your life.

Does it mean you should stop trying? No. Go out, meet people have fun but don't centre your whooole life on relationships and sex. Create family through friends, projects, a cause, a passion, adventure. There is so much more to life.

Besides, how many people do we know who are in relationships that are miserable? Yeah.

Allusionator · 2023-04-20T02:52:01+00:00

There are more options for intimate relationships than pair-bonding. If you really want a life-partner you’d do well to meet a lot of different people and try and get to know as many as possible.

I’d also suggest that ‘exceptional personality’ is a ‘card’ just like the others, but if you have it you can definitely parlay it into a stable partnership if that’s what you really want.

Redotta · 2023-04-20T06:50:47+00:00

Yes I do. Although some people decide themselves they want to remain single, my great aunt was like that for example.

lordDandas · 2023-04-20T10:42:59+00:00

There is always someone for the Best versions of ourselves.

Nightchanger · 2023-04-20T11:19:39+00:00

Yes. As an open option without expectations.

supreme_retard_king · 2023-04-20T12:23:28+00:00

Statistically yes, reality no.

mikey_weasel · 2023-04-20T01:34:46+00:00

I'm not one for "singular soulmates" so I'd say some-body not some-one.

But I do think that it's possible to overcome almost all* obstacles you start with to build a social network and find a partner.

It might take quite a bit of work and overcoming major obstacles.

*I am sure there are some wild combinations that can make this impossible. I think that is a very small proportion of red pilled (or incel) individuals.

Booda069 · 2023-04-20T01:50:26+00:00

Imo no. A lot of folks will be inevitably be alone forever....or encounter nothing but failed relationships.

Downtown_Cat_1172 · 2023-04-20T04:15:11+00:00

I have met very, very few people in my life that I can't imagine being attractive to someone.

Specialist_Product51 · 2023-04-20T07:37:02+00:00

No, I don't.

BillyPilgrim75 · 2023-04-20T13:44:34+00:00

If the "someone" is someone you genuinely want, then the saying is metaphorically true, but as a practical matter not necessarily. All it takes is for your desires to be unconventional, along with your appeal being unconventional also, but not in a way that typically draws the person you like.

You may be a puzzle piece that almost never fits any other puzzle pieces, attracted to puzzle pieces that are uniquely poorly aligned with you.

Soft-Neat8117 · 2023-04-20T15:53:22+00:00

Statistically, yes. But the odds of meeting those people? Not always good. What if they live in a country you'll never visit? Or are too old or young for you to date? Or the interest isn't mutual.

There are people out there who will never find a partner or at least not a permanent one, but they are a very small minority of the population. Most people who identify as incels could find someone if they either improved themselves or lowered their standards.

vb2509 · 2023-04-20T21:05:06+00:00

I have not been in a relationship before but I do think having faith that they are out there makes you want to be your best self for when they do show up.

Petyr111 · 2023-04-21T17:44:10+00:00

For women, yes.

For men, no.

Because the male sexual urge makes men want women more than the opposite. While the modern world makes women needs men less.

And this is worse for men each day.

It is easy to think that everybody has someone when you ignore 30yo virgins or that never dated.

ShahZaZa · 2023-05-05T17:43:40+00:00

No, so keep working on yourself. The dating market is highly competitive and unforgiving. Spend every minute of your time improving yourself in terms of status, game, personality & looks. Attract butterflies to your garden rather than chase them.

Kurenai_i · 2023-05-06T00:09:56+00:00

I genuinely think there is someone for everyone . But alot of people ruin their own oportunities and possible relationships.

Title	Do you believe that there is someone for everyone?
Author	-Seahawk
Upvotes	4
Comments	26
Date	April 20, 2023 1:07 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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