The concept of "Game"

2_cider_jack · 2023-05-06T09:42:05+00:00

Game will most likely get you more attention from women on average. The issue is, you'll attract the kind of women who are attracted to game: not the kind of girls you want to date.

I've had times where I was smashing like crazy trying to be someone I wasn't, and had a girlfriend being someone that I was. I'll take the latter 100 times over.

Mean_Mechanic9889 · 2023-05-06T14:21:26+00:00

From a woman. I see the term "game" as guys who are inept socially, or see girls as an object to aquire. Vs

Your definition which I see as a normal desirable man. Omg talk to me about whatever comes naturally like an equal human being. Hot.

If I feel like they think they've got game I honestly purposefully be a complete dick about it. Make it as awkward as possible.

risen-098 · 2023-05-06T18:20:36+00:00

So, the "Game" is actually the opposite of trying to talk to a woman like she is a human.

It's ALL about talking to a woman like she's an NPC and memorizing dialogue trees basically.

It's extremely dehumanizing because it's a bunch of men who don't really have a lot of social experience who have spent way too much time playing video games believing there's ways to "hack" a woman.

Stay far clear of these people and seek out actual psychologist advice. You already seem to have your head on straight, though, and that's good. You should just talk to a woman like any other human being and that's what I think as a woman I find to be most endearing when a man talks to me in a way that doesn't remind me of my sex but also not talking to me like 'one of the guys' either. It's a delicate balance but I think it just comes with being able to reject gender and other societal roles and talk to people like individuals removed from their physical or socio-economic characteristics. I think that's true 'game' but eh.

goodboy92 · 2023-05-06T23:36:41+00:00

Game seems like something that you must do all the time, like an act you must do or put all the time and most of the time it differs from your true personality. Basically you are implying that your true self sucks and that you want to be someone else.

SweelFor- · 2023-05-06T07:20:33+00:00

Are you asking if the redpill model to human relationships is a good one?

meisterkraus · 2023-05-06T13:56:30+00:00

Game is just your ability to flirt. Flirting is the expression of romantic and sexual desire. So having game is all about showing that interest. You don't have to pretend bro be something who are not.

extherian · 2023-05-06T18:18:54+00:00

Just talking to women 'like they're humans' is important but not enough by itself, you also have to flirt with them or they'll never see you in a romantic light no matter how good your chemistry is. Unfortunately, I was dumb enough to think this meant some kind of overly sexual alpha male act, which achieves nothing more than hurting and upsetting them.

JimBeamAndCoke2016 · 2023-05-08T03:47:29+00:00

Game is another scam concept created by the PUA industry, trying to convince men of all levels of attractiveness that carrying out routines will make them successful with women.

In reality game is just flirting, and is only really successful for men that women typically find good looking enough. For guys who fall below this attractiveness level (who are the target demographic of the PUA industry), it's a complete waste of time and doesn't work.

frmi8 · 2023-05-08T13:59:25+00:00

You said it best: "all game was was just being able to talk to women like their humans, be able to hold the conversation, be funny and make jokes and be lighthearted around them and be straightforward with women too."

I think "game" is preached as a form of tactic to seduce ANY woman you want to sleep with, but just because a woman is attractive, it doesn't mean you want to sleep with her.

Eventually, casual sex becomes boring and emotionally draining.

My idea of "game" is being able to relate and show my true identity to the women I find attractive and let the chips fall wherever they may, in other words, being honest and polarizing.

If she likes me, awesome!

If she doesn't, that's awesome as well! I don't want to interact with or "win over" a woman who doesn't appreciate my REAL self.

It has served me well.

difficultconcept · 2023-05-06T09:28:13+00:00

Red Pillers teach you that you need to be a magician who's pulling rabbits out of a hat all of the time. I think that's the case for cold approaching and online dating, you really need to stand out because the competition is fierce.

However, you don't need to put that much effort if you want to go out with a woman that already knows you.

DiscipuluIgnotus · 2023-05-16T14:54:30+00:00

If you want real, real game, forget about the majority of these content creators like How To Beast.

I highly recommend Mr. Locario and King Dre, those are guys who have REAL experience, who give you game that ACTUALLY makes sense.

sturgeo123 · 2023-05-16T18:18:19+00:00

It is a real thing but trying to force urself to act like u have game is not the right thing as it just makes u cringe. True confidence comes from exposing urself to uncomfortable situations repeatedly until they become comfortable and u develop confidence. For instance when I first started working on my jumpshot it was awkward as hell and looked terrible. But after practicing it for a while it looks smooth and natural. Confidence is similarly developed thru repetition there’s no cheat code.

Nightchanger · 2023-05-12T14:19:13+00:00

For those that are ND or physically repulsive. It is.

Title	The concept of "Game"
Author	-Seahawk
Upvotes	17
Comments	52
Date	May 6, 2023 1:43 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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