Why the hell are red pill influencers so obsessed with young men losing their virginity?

octave120 · 2024-07-10T18:20:22+00:00

It’s their main selling point. It appeals to a lot of virgin men, because they have no experience of sex and want it really badly. Thus, it keeps them engaged in their content and even convinces some to financially support their channel.

BosonCollider · 2024-07-10T17:51:09+00:00

Because this is the kind of thing you realize only afterwards, and red pill influencers primarily look for vulnerable people that they can influence.

Advanced_Scratch2868 · 2024-07-10T21:01:22+00:00

Redpillers in general are obsesed with geting sex. Its like top thing for them and they project their own opinion onto other men, thinking all men, like them, think about sex non stop.

Key-Sundae1909 · 2024-07-10T21:19:59+00:00

Because male virginity can be a source of shame and embarrassment, especially as you get beyond your early 20s. It’s easy to develop a complex from this. Redpill gurus will capitalise on that vulnerability.

SweelFor- · 2024-07-10T18:48:32+00:00

It literally all comes down to: money. It's how they make money.

Soft-Neat8117 · 2024-07-10T20:40:27+00:00

Society in general tends to shame male virgins, telling them that if they haven't lost their virginity by 17, they're losers.

Look at how any movie, TV show, video game etc portrays male virgins. Odds are, it isn't positive.

MangOrion2 · 2024-07-10T21:45:19+00:00

Most redpillers, regardless of age, are still trying to lose their virginity.

takingastep · 2024-07-10T23:50:27+00:00

Aside from the grifting and influencing that other commenters have mentioned, I'd imagine that

a) misery loves company, and/or

b) while not all virgins are incels, most incels are virgins, so the red pill and incel communities are likely related such that the red pill becomes a pipeline to inceldom (and the political right wing/fascism).

SquashyCorgi478 · 2024-07-10T19:45:07+00:00

Yeah I was almost 20 when I lost mine, and it was purely just a fuck it, we ball moment, because I was tired of not knowing. (no pun intended)

Personal_Dirt3089 · 2024-07-10T18:39:30+00:00

because it is marketable to young guys that will click for ad revenue.

2024-07-10T22:10:37+00:00

İ think it is because they say that if u did not lose your virginity early, girls will turn off due to his lack of experince which makes people feel like they have to lose it immediately

Slat3r10 · 2024-07-11T04:30:43+00:00

It's a vulnerable crowd that is desperate to do anything to fix their shortcomings, so they pay money (or time) to people they believe will be the quick fix. This is reciprocated by people who see a path to money by offering swag, classes and biased ideas. The focus is going to obsess on making money.

This is where it's going to break into two camps

The red pill influences who dont believe what they sell and those who do.

Those who don't are preying on men to make money and manipulate people

Those who do believe are obsessed because of their own wounds and maybe have had some luck using RP to lose their virginity so now it's a bible to them.

Awkward-Wave-5857 · 2024-07-11T08:18:03+00:00

Primarily because they are selling fear: 'buy my course or you will never get a woman' etc.

But it also feeds into their more general reactionary outlook The idea that young men in the contemporary world are having no sex forms part of their broader attack on feminism and the sexual revolution, which are said to have fuelled unrestrained 'hypergamy' in which women are chasing only the top 1% of men. The insinuation (or sometimes they just come out and say it) is that allowing women to choose their sexual partners is a bad thing that is destabilising society. These red pill influencers aren't (for the most part) worried about men. What they really want is to control women.

Clean_Awareness_4233 · 2024-07-11T04:06:22+00:00

I think it isnt as important as they say it is, but more like seeing the lines between why they want you to. If you learn how to please a woman and your self with sex with out losing your virgnity they would suggest that, but you cant so.. yeah. Another part of that is also understanding woman as a whole the more woman you interact and date the more you understand woman's nature making your dating experiences better. they just have a horrible way of saying it.

Anjemivas_ · 2024-08-11T11:56:20+00:00

Most of it does have to do with them being shamed for being a virgin when they were younger and having a savior complex for younger men. Same with women who are fetishized for being a virgin as a woman and build purity culture from that, there are women who profit from this as well. Unsure why but at some point humans decided that women should be virgins and men should not and somehow what everybody chose to do with their body mattered to everybody??? Idk

buzluu · 2024-07-10T17:53:12+00:00

Bro your condition and your question is basicly the answer is why they r f up a**holes.Ok lets be gentle,they have lack of empathy or smaller perspective of life,they are trying to give their life a meaning via becoming sex boss or something.My opinion is,they feel like the men jn the street or young boys or so sad cause they couldnt have sex(that could be true in some point),but the reality is this is not the only problem or only aspect of it.They only see this and talk like only thing which is matter is this.This could be something like,trying to act what u wanna be or seen or charismatic.Playing a character.Knowing which things are getting attention.And playin in these areas.I hope you re cool rn.

KosmischRelevant · 2024-07-10T18:00:29+00:00

Hot Take: because losing virginity belongs to a "normal" sex life. Yes, not everyone cares about sex. But it is a part of human experience, why should someone miss this? Especially if someone wants to have sex and doesn't have it. Doesn't matter if in relationships or hook ups.

Title	Why the hell are red pill influencers so obsessed with young men losing their virginity?
Author	Truthteller1995
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Date	July 10, 2024 5:32 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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