A friendly reminder

ms_monquis · 2020-01-04T15:36:56+00:00

We can quibble about picking up his dry cleaning or making him soup when he's sick.

The big NO NO's are:

Lending money
Buying a house or starting a business with a boyfriend
Having a child with a boyfriend
Cosigning or paying off debt for a boyfriend
Moving for a boyfriend
Giving up any kind of educational or work opportunity
Giving up pets, family or friends.

You might not even want to do some of those for a husband.

Alybank · 2020-01-04T15:01:39+00:00

One thing I’ve learned is never do laundry for a guy you’re not married to.

extraacct1234 · 2020-01-04T16:34:38+00:00

Don't ever do a man's fucking laundry or pack his goddamn lunch. Do not ever let him touch you if he hasn't been treating you right. Do not suck his dick while you're on your period because he thinks your body is disgusting and won't fuck you. Do not ever let him put his dick in you without full foreplay to the point that you're wet, relaxed and it feels good. Do not let him get away with not giving you an orgasm every single time you have sex. Make him learn how to get you off by eating your pussy. And make him do that occasionally with no other sex. Make him clean up his piss stains around the toilet. Bf or husband. Don't be a doormat that he won't respect.

rftw2013 · 2020-01-04T13:36:16+00:00

Me too. What's something you would do for your hubs that you wouldn't do for a boyfriend?

Sex is generally considered a "husband privilege," but no way would I marry someone with whom I hadn't had sex. I need to know if we are compatible.

2020-01-04T17:19:18+00:00

Don’t divulge your secrets to a boyfriend.

sunmoonandstarss · 2020-01-05T07:10:00+00:00

I moved for my ex LVM. Fuck. I will never do that again, ever.

2020-01-25T20:11:58+00:00

Should you take a vacation with a boyfriend? If so, should he pay for all of it? I’m new to all of this, but I want to learn for the future.

BubblyKraken · 2020-01-04T13:22:03+00:00

I am a bit confused. What does that mean?

extraacct1234 · 2020-01-04T15:43:18+00:00

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Title	A friendly reminder
Author	smarfette
Upvotes	704
Comments	60
Date	January 4, 2020 11:26 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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