Let's just say I am glad I did. Been exclusive for about two months and this mfer has been texting his ex the whole time. He has also been sending some very sexually charged texts to his friend's girlfriend. He was very intelligent, had character (at least that is what I thought) generous with money etc. At first I didn't want to check his phone because I did not want to be that 'crazy girl' but I am glad I did. Lessons I have learned from this:

  1. Trust no man literally they are all the same. Male depravity is real, even the most intelligent ones are depraved.
  2. He will lie through his teeth to get himself out of a lie and question your recollection. He will say all kind of things, don't doubt yourself. You know what you saw.
  3. FDS works, I employed all these strategies including checking his phone that was posted recently. I am not too broken up about it because I kept my heart to myself and never gave too much. Years back I would have cried my fucking eyes out compared myself to his ex and probably texted him a long ass paragraph😂. My pick me days are behind me thank you ladies. Side note, felt kind of Petty and alluded to my exes six pack and big d*k which he had, he was also a terrible human being, but since we were on the subject of exes I couldn't pass up the opportunity 😉😂